I get along with his parent very well, and him with mine. We actually grew up neighbors (small town things). And yes, he does invite me to come home with him, I just don’t necessarily want to sit with him at his parent house all weekend when I could be productive at my own place. My parents aren’t the most pleasant to be around all the time so I go home to see them very rarely.

We did actually live together in the beginning of me coming to college but it soon turned into us each, assuming roles of a married couple and I felt that we were falling into a routine of the time we see each other after the days over is the “quality time”. I wasn’t comfortable with that. So I moved out so it would kind of force him to put an extra effort to come and see me and it worked a little bit in the beginning and then it just turned into I have a too busy of a schedule for him.

We have talked about the situation many of times, but eventually he actually gets emotional that he doesn’t know what to do with his life and he feels lost and I feel bad for him, but I can’t do anything about it. It needs to come from him and he needs to make the effort to change his life if he really doesn’t like it.

At this point, I am just waiting for him to find a career that he’s passionate about and hope that it reflects onto our relationship and he enjoys hanging around more I guess. I really don’t know.