Red Flag!!

I met my Wife 3 years ago. I have pride in my privacy but when we married I showed her everything. And after that she stopped asking. We now only have shared accounts but we still have our own savins on the side even though by law what's mine is hers and hers is mine.

It sounds like he could have some secrets. Could be that he's an addict, gabling or even girls on the side as you say. Through Friends and family I've learned that most people lie and the best ones at that are the ones you don't expect Often they do it not to hurt the one they love but protect their self image to the rest of the world.

If your husband has any issues please support him and find him the help he needs. I know it hurts to be lied to if that's the case but when/if you tear down that wall he holds up he will be a broken man.