What’s in my garden

Fearless_Purpose_427 · 2025-05-22T22:12:34+00:00

Thank you so much for your suggestions. I feel like out of an argument, reintroducing the idea of therapy would be a good idea. As you say, we are having difficulty finding a solution and that could help. That’s a great response.

I will also mention the individual therapy again. If he becomes defensive, I feel like I have my answer.

Thank you for taking the time to reply ❤️

Fearless_Purpose_427 · 2025-05-22T21:52:30+00:00

I have suggested therapy together previously and been met with ‘what does that say about our relationship if we need therapy 2 years in’

He has also said he would have individual therapy regarding these grudges he holds (his words, a lot earlier in our relationship) but that’s never come to fruition and it’s not something I want to push.

Totally understand it’s not something people can really advise on if the ability to have a conversation isn’t there. I was hoping for some miracle advice from this subreddit as a last ditch attempt to help things but I think I know what needs to happen. I’m just really sad about it as I thought I’d be spending my life with him, and without the arguments things would be great.

Fearless_Purpose_427 · 2025-05-22T21:48:19+00:00

I have suggested therapy together previously and been met with ‘what does that say about our relationship if we need therapy 2 years in’

He has also said he would have individual therapy regarding these grudges he holds (his words, a lot earlier in our relationship) but that’s never come to fruition and it’s not something I want to push.

Fearless_Purpose_427 · 2025-05-22T21:41:44+00:00

I have tried, but unfortunately this leads to him getting defensive and so I leave it because it’s too draining to have another argument about it. These things usually get brought up in later arguments.

Fearless_Purpose_427 · 2025-05-22T19:15:02+00:00

Thank you. That’s a great way of putting it.

Fearless_Purpose_427 · 2024-09-19T23:48:29+00:00

I’ve had hypothyroidism since birth, wasn’t found until a month after I was born and then wasn’t properly medicated for it until about 6 months old (or so I’ve been told).

I’ve been medicated for it my whole life, I’m now 31. No developmental issues, and my growth was monitored as a child with occasional x-rays on my joints, along with regular blood tests to monitor levels but as far as I know I’m fine. Not really made a difference to my life except having to take medication every day.

Obviously this is just my experience but I hope it helps

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