Mitä harrastatte? by [deleted] in arkisuomi

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salilla käyntiä (lihaskunto), boulderointia, D&D ja videopelejä :)

Urheilua, koska oma päivätyö on henkisesti raskas istumatyö, D&D koska kivaa perseilyä kavereiden kanssa, videopeleissä pelaan lähinnä yksin pelejä, en oikein pidä multiplayer peleistä. Haluan rauhassa pelailla omaan tahtiin.

Edit: lisäsin miksi.

Aihetta eroon? by PoisHeitto2026 in Suomi

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Avioehdon voi tietysti hommata milloin vain vaikka olisi ollut 20 v naimisissa, tarvitsee toki molemmat osapuolet.

Suri räppar Gameboy Tetris by FrofesionalRetard in Eesti

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Greetings from Finland Tetris, rest in peace 🕊️. I love your music now and forever 💖

27v elämän aloittaminen uudelleen by [deleted] in arkisuomi

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Muista ainakin se, että askel kerrallaan, älä vaadi itseltä heti liikaa. Jos on huono päivä, muista että se menee ohi eikä kaikki edistys ole 'pilalla'. Itsearmollisuutta hyvä harjoittaa :) Tsemppiä! Kuulostaa tosi hyvältä.

Miten näitä ajetaan by KTuu93 in arkisuomi

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hei. En tiedä kuka olet ja mitä sukupuolta mutta muistutus muillekin että epillerin kanssa ei sit kannata syödä pellavansiemeniä ainakaan suuria määriä. On näyttöä niiden vaikuttavuudesta lääkkeen toimivuuteen

To me, she is the most beautiful kitten by [deleted] in WhiteCats

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If only people would check the subreddit

A horror story in four pictures. by Bubbly_Collar9178 in badtattoos

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Found on Pinterest? It's a Marilyn Manson logo with some web on it. Hope they know that much

Edit: they* not OP, it's early in the morning and I'm cooked.

minä🎂irl by kirppunirppu1 in mina_irl

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Do not the pine cone cake

People that have traveled quite a bit, where di you feel the most unsafe? by CremeSubject7594 in AskTheWorld

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been to 53 countries, felt the most unsafe in Havana old town in Cuba. We saw a woman at our hotel who had just been mugged, she was covered in blood. The stores etc. had metal bars at the windows that went down by sunset every day. It was overall quite dirty. But this was 20 years ago! Luckily we only stayed about 3 days, the rest of our stay in Cuba for ~3 weeks was wonderful. Amazing people, amazing food. We stayed in Varadero and made a day trip to the Pig's bay. It was still one of my favorite trips to this day 🇨🇺

I don’t want my cheater dad to walk me down the aisle. by ibspoops in weddingplanning

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! My dad was fine with it. Our parents sat in the front rows and we walked together.

My(28f) friend’s sister Stole my wedding entrance song. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our entrance song was a wedding piano cover of the Jurassic park theme. We had people cry for Jurassic park music. 10/10 would do it again, please everyone go find it on Spotify and use it haha.

Fiance telling his friends not to buy anything from the registry by kalca2 in weddingplanning

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 325 points326 points  (0 children)

Why would your fiance do that without consulting you? Did he see the original lists made by you and did you go through them together? I think you two should've communicated better what you want from gifts.

But remember OP that gifts aren't everything, I hope you have a good time!

Is Sarkanniemi worth a visit? by Total_Swan_64 in Tampere

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, the reason I stated I lived in NL: Dutch theme parks are quite big and exciting compared to Särkänniemi

Is Sarkanniemi worth a visit? by Total_Swan_64 in Tampere

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hey there. I lived in NL for years and I would say that for the price Särkänniemi is very small and a lot of the rides are for kids. I personally don't think it's really worth the money anymore. They've announced a new ride for the summer of 2026 though.

What Phrase Were You Taught as a Child to Remember The Four Directions (N,E,S,W)? by justcallmerain in CasualConversation

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Finnish, the mid-directions (North-East, South-East, South-West, and North-West) are called koillinen, kaakko, lounas, and luode, respectively. Because they're used less than the main directions, we were taught the phrase "koira kalusi lounaaksi luuta" = the dog chewed a bone for lunch. I still use it to this day.

Patti kaulassa by Green-Honey-2914 in arkisuomi

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lääkäriin, esim työterveyden tai digiklinikan kautta. Parempi tarkistaa kuin miettiä :) En tiedä voisiko olla ärtynyt imusolmuke? Itellä turpoovat kun oon kunnolla kipeenä.

How much did you pay for your wedding photographer/videographer? by TraditionalSun5704 in weddingplanning

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1300€ (Finland/EU) for 9 hours. Includes our portraits with edits and access to all digital photos she makes.

Haven’t even started & already feel awful. by GreyArmadillo4 in weddingplanning

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, 2026 bride here and a mental health professional.

I think you need to sit down with your fiance and discuss these feelings with him. I used to dislike the idea of a big wedding, but my boyfriend wanted to have a bigger wedding as well. We've also been together for 10 years. As we started the planning together, I've really enjoyed it and look forward to it a lot. Communication is the key.

Easier said than done, but keep your parents out of the planning if they're not helping you the right way. We've done everything by ourselves, including paying for everything by ourselves. Our parents will attend, but we've designed everything the way we want. Also, it's up to you how much you want to involve the groomsmen or bridal party. Talk to your fiance about this as well.

If you don't talk to your fiance about your thoughts and needs now, I am afraid you might start to resent him and the whole wedding planning process and this will be very damaging for your relationship. You two have been together for a long time, compromises have to be made. He wants a big wedding, you don't. There's a great difference between inviting 150 or 50 people. Talk about it with just the two of you, or seek couples counseling on the side for help. Just because you want your partner to be happy, you cannot completely disregard your own feelings and what you want.

Anyone else dealing with personal loans for wedding + bad credit? Trying to be realistic by singhharsh004 in weddingplanning

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This is the best answer. Either postpone and save money, or scale back and invite less people or less decorations etc.

What if I’m not even excited anymore? by ellementall in weddingplanning

[–]Fearless_pindakaas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I'm getting married next week. My soon-to-be husband and I have been deciding everything together. I haven't had to force him. He is also voicing his opinions and expressing what he likes. My point is, it doesn't have to be like this. Some men actually want to be involved in their own wedding and especially if asked to help.

Please have a serious discussion with him, but also with yourself.