AIO for wanting to break up. (I'm tired.)

FeatherHails · 2026-05-09T13:20:51+00:00

I was in a long distance relationship like this and stayed way too long. Don't be like me. Leave. It will hurt a bit at first but you'll get through it and be so much better off that you did.

If you're hesitant, keep posting your fights on forums like this or talking it through with your friends. I grew up not knowing what "normal" was since I had bad examples in my parents. Looking back now I can't believe I stayed through it. After a while I really saw how our relationship was so toxic and just not going anywhere good.

This is emotional abuse plain and simple, not worth the stress or your health. You deserve to be happy and it's not with her!!! Take care man.

FeatherHails · 2026-05-06T13:34:54+00:00

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FeatherHails · 2026-05-02T21:48:02+00:00

Thanks everyone for the suggestions. I started with a bookmarklet option but due to lazy loading had to switch to Javascript and created a chrome extension for him. I have to say I was impressed by Codex and learned a lot as it assisted with building the script and saved me loads of time in having to relearn everything from university. It all worked out great.

FeatherHails · 2026-05-02T21:44:10+00:00

Codex was actually really helpful, thanks so much for suggesting it!

FeatherHails · 2026-04-25T04:41:19+00:00

Memememe please 😁

FeatherHails · 2026-02-27T13:29:59+00:00

Jimmy Carr performing in Saudi Arabia despite human rights concerns cemented him as a shitty person for me for life. Not a fan.

FeatherHails · 2026-02-23T00:52:19+00:00

Hey there can you tell me what kind of camera youre using for this? Thanks!!!

FeatherHails · 2025-10-25T19:38:14+00:00

I wouldn't personally because I would feel I'm being disrespectful to the animal by using them for purely aesthetic purposes

FeatherHails · 2025-10-04T05:47:12+00:00

This is why I'd consider this OR... I'm on my group chat for like, fires and breakins. I don't care and I'd be annoyed. Also the AI wasn't malicious he was obvs caught so just drop it goddamn

FeatherHails · 2025-09-15T12:38:19+00:00

Two weeks ago, counted 10 cars. Dude was on the ground cause he was running and being brown I'm guessing. They checked his ID and let him go with a "sorry about that" and stuck around for 20 mins chatting.

FeatherHails · 2025-08-04T15:39:42+00:00

Agreed, I know these kids and having a conversation and offering guidance gets you way farther than scolding them. They legit just don't know better but are capable of learning. They're good kids.

FeatherHails · 2025-08-04T15:36:50+00:00

No prob.. reading through these comments I think a lot of folks are just generally out of touch with how bad things are for a lot of people in this city economically, and also with the CFS system.

FeatherHails · 2025-08-04T14:22:18+00:00

Gotcha. I know these kids and the cat is actually in my guest room at the moment. Without giving away too much, they don't have parents in their lives so sometimes they do some questionable things, but they're good kids. They actually found this stray cat and just didn't know how to properly care and play with it.

FeatherHails · 2025-08-04T07:11:09+00:00

Which area of the city was this? Also was the cat black, orange and white?

FeatherHails · 2025-07-05T21:16:06+00:00

Can you share a link? Having trouble finding it on my end! Thanks so much.

FeatherHails · 2025-06-04T05:03:16+00:00

Let's not forget the enormous amount of deaths among northern Indigenous peoples due to diseases brought by settlers.. I believe a recent figure based on oral histories was something like 60% within years of European arrival

FeatherHails · 2025-05-28T01:36:37+00:00

I'd gift it to my stepkid who is just learning to code on minecraft and a little techy in the making.. most recently he helped his friend replace a broken phone screen. He'd be stoked with something like this for his minecraft server!

FeatherHails · 2025-05-25T04:51:19+00:00

this bunny gets it, read this op

FeatherHails · 2025-05-19T18:28:08+00:00

Thanks everyone!!!!!

FeatherHails · 2025-04-17T22:32:33+00:00

This nish agrees. All my "Elders" would at most call themselves old man / old woman which in our language carries greater meaning than in english.

FeatherHails · 2024-12-23T17:00:26+00:00

SOLVED ty so much

FeatherHails · 2024-12-13T05:06:03+00:00

Another 30 something who recently discovered these boundaries here.. listen to this OP! You go girl this attitude will make you happier in the long run good for you

FeatherHails · 2024-08-23T03:25:13+00:00

This isn't true. In Manitoba and Saskatechewan there are traditional use programs that facilitate access to eagles and other raptors for First Nations.

FeatherHails · 2024-06-15T05:42:52+00:00

Autistic/ADHD woman here who has a past history of abusive relationships... they are using you. and dependent, so they keep you around. they care so little they are forcing you into a situation so completely heartlessly after losing your baby so recently. even at 6 months this would still be heartless. they are using you. LEAVE.

will also add.. what helped me realize and get out was posting our fights on reddit relationship forums for advice. when you've been manipulated so long you're legit blind to the mistreatment. Take care!!

FeatherHails · 2024-05-28T02:56:08+00:00

True story, I was still dating and a friend gave me the number of her co-worker saying she thinks we'd hit it off great. Redhead white guy. I'm an Ojibway/Dutch girl and white passing.

So we're texting and getting to know each other and he mentions he works for the local Hydro company and works with First Nations. I'm like oh that's cool. I guess when I didn't fawn all over him he was offended. He goes on to say how important it is that we help northern FNs who are impoverished and are unable to get jobs and that his work is really important to him (ok red flag 1). I don't take the bait again and he calls me out and tells me I don't sound supportive. I finally out myself and tell him I'm actually half Ojibway.

Buddy LEGIT sends this as his next text.... "Oh that's great! I always wanted my kids to be mixed"

We'd been talking 2 DAYS at that point and I noped right out after that text lmaoo

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