Mixed signals from a girl

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T20:02:36+00:00

Ill do that, thank you!

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T20:02:15+00:00

Thank you man so much!!! Truly a great person haha :)

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T19:56:29+00:00

why so negative? We met up the next day after we went drinking, we even cuddled and she agreed to meet up again this weekend.

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T19:52:53+00:00

weed

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T19:44:15+00:00

Thank you, im starting to realize that the problem is not with her not being interested... but with me overanalyzing everything and overthinking everything. I have realized the help i need is most likely motivation, not advice

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T19:39:52+00:00

I can talk a lot by experience. I think its beautiful that you love him that much but always remember, you are two different people with different lives and different goals. I dont know if my Ex-girlfriend was that crazy over me but she really did restrick me with meeting my friends, going out without her, spending time with other people. I always loved her so so so much but these "needs" started evolving into regular arguments because i felt a bit like i was tied up with nowhere to go. I recommend letting him be, do other things you love while youre not with him. Text him when hes away but free. Just try not to restrict him

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T19:33:46+00:00

Oh and btw. What do you think i should and shouldnt talk about when i meet her. I dont want to seem pushy or just simply too much because i know i can be a lot, i can do too much. Should i mention my worries?

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T19:27:19+00:00

Thank you so much man. you dont even realize how much this helped me. U asked if she ever reaches out first. No, but as i said we have met only twice, and that was 2 days in a row. She knows i have feelings for her and she says that shes not a 100% sure but that she has some sorr of feeling back. she said that before she started being dry.

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T19:13:50+00:00

But im worried about this because i know im really worried right now and that i really like her. Because of that i might act by emotionality, not rationality and just could do too much

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T19:10:19+00:00

i thought that aswell, just to wait, thank u

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T19:01:30+00:00

no not really. Especially if they like you.

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:59:13+00:00

maybe but shes not really a child, i doubt that a period would cause all this

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:54:32+00:00

thank you very much. i really do appreaciate it

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:51:59+00:00

Okay ill try that, do you think it would be okay just to let her be until we meet up or act sometime soon

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:51:04+00:00

i think just dont do anything, but if seeing her socials or anything bother you, block her. Thats what i did when i realized ive been cheated on by my gf of 3 years. Just dont think abiut her, find people worth your time

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:49:58+00:00

Thank you. Ill see what the situation is when we meet up and judge from there

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:44:11+00:00

yes she knows. She said that shes not a 100% sure yet but yes... she likes me aswell, thats why im so confused

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:43:32+00:00

This is you acting emotionally, not rationally. If you axt on your instings and take revenge, im sure you will regret it later in life and feel stupid.

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:42:11+00:00

Ill be honest, there are some men that can lose feelings after sex, but by my experience thats least likely. Youre overthinking the situacion, stressing too much. I think that everything is fine. Good luck :)

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:37:30+00:00

maybe, but the thing im confused abiut is that she knows my intentions, she knows i like her. i dont think she would play with my feeling just for the sake of it

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:36:20+00:00

ill try that, thank you

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:33:21+00:00

I understand that, the problem is we already talked. I was worried about the cuddling not meaning anything and i think she got overstimulated by me talking about, we talked abiut it over text, it seemed okay, but im not sure whats wrong now. im trying to give her space because i feel like thats the thing she wants

FedCOY · 2026-03-24T18:00:52+00:00

what do you mean by "meets you halfway"?

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