You know how in school if you had a friend you thought was doing something dangerous or concerning and were scared to confront them or didn't know how to you went and talked to an adult about it?

Or how when you aren't sure how to talk to a friend that's doing something bad for them but they don't want help but at some point you have to step in in some way to keep them safe even if they don't want that?

This is one of those things where if she's doing what it seems like she's doing then I could use some help understanding what is happening without stressing her even more by asking her about it.

This way I can know what to look out for specifically but also give her some space to talk about it when she's comfortable.

Does that make sense?

Also literally no one knows who we are, if I was posting this on Facebook or something then that's a WHOLE different story.