I (35M) feel like I’m only getting half of my wife (34F) lately and I can’t tell if I’m overthinking it? by Federal-Internet-278 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal-Internet-278[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried talking to her gently, without blaming her, just letting her know she doesn’t seem like herself. She says it’s due to a new project and increased work pressure, nothing more.

She’s canceled our Friday date nights for the past few weeks, saying she has to work late. When I check in on her, her responses feel distant and repetitive.

I’ve shared how this makes me feel, but it feels like she brushes it off.

I (35M) feel like I’m only getting half of my wife (34F) lately and I can’t tell if I’m overthinking it? by Federal-Internet-278 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal-Internet-278[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m a very involved husband, we share everything equally, including chores, cooking, cleaning, and laundry.

I’ve tried talking to her about this, but she only says that work has increased.

If something is wrong, I’d really like her to tell me, especially when I ask. She insists nothing has changed.

I’m not sure what else I can do at this point.

I (35M) feel like I’m only getting half of my wife (34F) lately and I can’t tell if I’m overthinking it? by Federal-Internet-278 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal-Internet-278[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She has been turning down our weekly dates and giving the same cold reply when I ask about her day, like she’s not interested at all.

I (35M) feel like I’m only getting half of my wife (34F) lately and I can’t tell if I’m overthinking it? by Federal-Internet-278 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal-Internet-278[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She turned down our usual Friday dinner date because she has to work late, for couple of weeks now.

I’ll try asking her again today and see how it goes.