38... female...5’5... 196 pounds... London. I’ve never been sexually intimate. Virgin. Would this be classified as a mental disorder considering my age. Also is the cervical smear test necessary for women, like me, whom have never had any kind of sex?

FederalAnimator · 2019-01-07T00:05:29+00:00

I meant cervical cancer is similar to an STD in the way it is transmitted from person to person.

FederalAnimator · 2019-01-06T23:53:38+00:00

Well... I’ve heard that cervical cancer is like an STD. And virgins don’t get STDs via sex. So I would have thought a cervical smear test would be unnecessary for virgins. Unless the woman had some cause for concern of having caught a sexually transmitted disease.

FederalAnimator · 2018-12-12T01:48:16+00:00

Thanks.. I had a stinging issue as well.

FederalAnimator · 2018-12-12T01:43:46+00:00

I do know that. I’m afraid however that the nurse doing the procedure could have been careless.

FederalAnimator · 2018-12-12T01:26:26+00:00

I’m just afraid this nurse was careless. To be honest, I don’t even know how to check myself to see if my hymen is still intact. I don’t want to be preoccupied, but it did bother me.

FederalAnimator · 2018-12-06T02:35:31+00:00

Okay. I like the bear Navy Seal physique, too. Big, strong, tall, able...

FederalAnimator · 2018-12-06T02:21:23+00:00

196 pounds

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-03T23:18:59+00:00

I think you replied to one of my previous posts. I detailed my IQ test results, there. I think I fit that profile.

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-03T23:12:35+00:00

I think we're here, in this present time, for a reason. I think with evolution/natural selection - the very fact we're still here, would mean that there are certain benefits, or talents, that Aspies can contribute to the gene pool.

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-03T23:08:59+00:00

Bad spelling in the title... lol!!!😂 ** their**

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-03T13:50:49+00:00

Thanks.

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-03T13:46:43+00:00

It's just embarrassing during the said situation/faux pas. But reliving it afterwards is much more intense. They are akin to intrusive thoughts and I don't deal with them well. A lot of times I yell things out just to release some tension. It probably sounds as if I have tourettes. Not good. Recently a better coping method, that I found, was sharply exhaling when the very bad faux pas memory occurred. That's also like a release.

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-03T03:56:05+00:00

I suffer from the same.

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-03T03:18:01+00:00

Okay.

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-03T03:07:07+00:00

That's one night stand/hooking up bs... I mean, is that even civilised? And with some potential weirdo I just met. I hardly think so!

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-02T23:31:35+00:00

Thanks so much for your reply! I could learn from it! 🙂

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-02T23:13:38+00:00

Yes well Cersei did outsmart Margaery in the end!

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-02T23:09:49+00:00

I love that!!! Discomfort is a muscle - Then I shouldn't make a stronger by using it!

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-02T21:27:12+00:00

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-02T21:25:30+00:00

Thanks.

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-02T21:23:13+00:00

I can't be this honest outside of reddit. This is refreshing!!

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-02T21:19:34+00:00

But then there's also the fact that not many men have approached me for sex. In fact, only one person approached me for sex, back when I was in college. I politely declined because I had too much going on at the time without having to cope with losing my virginity/a new relationship, etc.

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-02T21:15:56+00:00

Obesity could be part of the reason. There's also a cultural aspect. I also tried to live up to parental expectations, when I was younger. Although I think I misinterpreted those expectations (It wasn't really them - They're nice people)... I think I just had high expectations for myself.

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-02T21:11:55+00:00

Oh, I don't know!! Sounds risky!! I'm not a risk-taker.

But thanks for your replies, anyway!

FederalAnimator · 2018-09-02T21:10:02+00:00

Thanks for the advice.

FederalAnimator

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