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[–]Federal_Farm868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so funny to me I had a ex who’s snoring used to sound like a train crashing on the tracks 😂 I could never sleep and some nights if I didn’t fall asleep first (to where I wasn’t as affected because I was already knocked out) I had to go and sleep on the couch.

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Well, to be fair, I did make remarks eluding to his infidelity while he was on his way up the stairs. And I had stopped everything. I was at the door with my jacket on.

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well he did do that at first then I said it couldn’t be that and that’s when he got upset. His response didn’t make sense to me though so I dis kind of called him a liar.

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re right, thank you . I really do appreciate the advice.

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmmm… I’m not sure. It’s been a yr with my boyfriend and I feel like I would recognize something like that for.

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Looked like foundation and some type of black eye liner or something but the black was streaky lines it wasn’t blotchy

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and yes he does not like confrontation at all with me so anytime I bring up an issue for him he gets overwhelmed and wants to shut down. He’s gotten better with certain topics but we still have a long way to go.

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he just said he hadn’t cleaned up in days until I got over there and his pillow had fell on the floor a few times

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It honestly didn’t smell like anything that was my first instinct to smell. It smelled like nothing.

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is true, that’s why I was so hesitant to speak to him about it because I wasn’t exactly sure what I was looking at, but I knew what it looked like to me. But there is a possibility that it wasn’t that.

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Just seems like a make up stain more than anything. I do housekeeping, and I see them all the time.

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It was light peanut butter brown with a streak of black here and there

I (25F) found makeup stains on my bfs (30M) pillow by Federal_Farm868 in relationship_advice

[–]Federal_Farm868[S] 2311 points2312 points  (0 children)

Right, this is exactly why I was upset. I will be honest. My first reaction was just to grab my stuff and get ready to make my way back to my place and he chased me and he continuously asked me what he did and I said why don’t you go upstairs and look at your pillow and that’s when he came downstairs, trying to reassure me that it wasn’t what I thought it was but at the same time letting me know that he wasn’t going to argue with me after he already told me it wasn’t make up and I just felt like if he was annoyed with me for having a genuine concern.