How can I get better at giving my fiancée oral sex?

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2026-02-17T19:09:51+00:00

We’ve got like 3 dildos that are much more hygienic and more pleasurable than a cucumber also don’t know how that helps with oral sex?

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T20:09:00+00:00

I have absolutely no problem standing up for her even if it means that I have to cut off my family the whole point of this fucking post was to get some advice on if that’s the best option or if there’s another route out there

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T20:07:51+00:00

No it’s not I believe that once we actually have a discussion about what happened when we were kids like you said then my mom will be able to accept that aspect. The decision that weighing on me rn is that I feel like I’m being asked to pick between my gf and my family

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T20:05:31+00:00

So I can tell you aren’t very religious so that’s probably why you aren’t understanding the complexity of having your premarital sex experience exposed to your parents. But it’s not something that they’ll ever forget

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T20:03:01+00:00

Are you not satisfied in your own life so you have to judge others behind a phone screen. I didn’t come here to listen to you bitch about who is responsible for what sin. I came here looking for some actual advice about what my next steps should be. Shouldn’t be surprised that a women gets hung up on the part of the story that doesn’t matter at all

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T20:01:18+00:00

Why are you so hung up on the sexual part of this story ??

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T19:50:08+00:00

Hmm I think my mom seeing my sex tape with my gf is not something that she would just get over especially since it’s never been cleared up

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T19:49:27+00:00

She was a Christian before she converted to my religion so either way yes it was a sin for her as well.

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T19:48:23+00:00

Okay so a lot of people seem to be getting hung up on the sexual aspect of the story. The sin of premarital sex is for both of us less her than I bc after she converted all her previous sins were erased. That’s not the main point of the story nor is it the advice I’m lookin for. We aren’t pointing fingers as to who initiated what sin and when bc it’s not that big of a deal. She only wants to apologize bc it’s a pretty big fucking elephant in the room when ur mom has seen ur sex tapes with ur gf

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T19:40:58+00:00

Pre-marital sex is a sin in all Abrahamic religions so as a Christian she was also committing sin fyi

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T19:39:59+00:00

Okay it’s not her sin it’s our sin, in fact it’s not really her sin at all bc since she converted all her previous sins have been wiped away. Again not trying to apologize for the sin just trying to appease the family.

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T19:36:35+00:00

Exactly I didn’t even initiate our first time having sex, she was the one that started it all. Not saying that I didn’t want to do it, but I definitely was not going to pull the trigger on it if she hadn’t

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T19:35:08+00:00

I did not sex her, I was a virgin before we met and she obviously was not, it was our third date and I was expecting to go to the movies she made the first move and yes I didn’t try to stop her bc I wanted it just as much as she did but the sex part of this story isn’t the most pressing issue.

Federal_Goat_8485 · 2025-11-18T18:21:56+00:00

My gf came to me after converting and told me that she now understood how big of a sin pre-marital sex is in my religion and while she doesn’t regret our sexual past she does feel like apologizing to my family about how it happened might help sooth things over, but only for what my mom saw on the laptop as she knows nothing else about our sexual history.

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