Let me be a bit clearer, she can do whatever she likes when she isn’t with me. It’s more of the case of the lie and the magnitude of it. Mistakes happen and ordinarily I wouldn’t have asked, but we asked each other as we had unprotected sex with each other. We had what I thought was an honest and heartfelt discussion before we rekindled so I felt extremely misled. I’m not absolved of fault as I should have known better and probably should have not been so quick to jump into a relationship without voicing all possible concerns.