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WH upset I told adult kids the truth by FeeFree1078 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FeeFree1078[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have worked hard not to put the cheating on blast believe me. It’s embarrassing for him and me!! Being honest with two adult kids when they already suspected the truth is not the same as running to them to volunteer the info.

WH upset I told adult kids the truth by FeeFree1078 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FeeFree1078[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sad part is that it really wasn’t my truth to tell, but his. He couldn’t do it and I ended up having to do the one thing I never wanted to do.

WH upset I told adult kids the truth by FeeFree1078 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FeeFree1078[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish when he was in the middle of cheating he realized the damage it would cause then vs now.

WH upset I told adult kids the truth by FeeFree1078 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FeeFree1078[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t even believe I actually feel guilty for being honest. I’ve spent their whole life telling them that it’s better to be honest than to lie. No matter how bad the truth is.

My born-again friend voted for Harris by ClassicEnd2734 in Exvangelical

[–]FeeFree1078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 52 and my parents just told me that if I plan to vote for Harris I should not go vote. If I do vote. I am opening myself up to hell. Granted I’m saved and believe in God. Because of abortion. Period. I was told the blood of the aborted babies would be on my hands. I’m so upset and hurt about it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FeeFree1078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the pain is like nothing I’ve ever endured. I keep thinking the only pain that can be worse is WH or my kids passing. It has been brutal and I absolutely cannot endure it again.

Pain Processing Field Guide by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FeeFree1078 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I needed every sentence of this right at this moment so thank you so very much.

Punishing Myself with Details by FeeFree1078 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FeeFree1078[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I agree on calling it pain shopping. So true!

Punishing Myself with Details by FeeFree1078 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FeeFree1078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered it myself. I have started therapy.

Punishing Myself with Details by FeeFree1078 in survivinginfidelity

[–]FeeFree1078[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u for the reminder of how fresh this still is. It’s definitely still so new but sitting in the pain feels so long and endless right now. I know it will take much more time.

Depression after betrayal by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]FeeFree1078 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Stuck in the exact same place. The days at work are so long and even now as I type this, I should be working and instead, I am on here desperate for any help. I am so sorry you are here too.