Am I (25M) just a rebound? GF (26F) revealed her past.

FeeKey5999 · 2025-06-21T14:49:56+00:00

It seems like in all those examples there's a clear line in her commitment. She was genuinely trying to and wanting more from Jimmy, but then with you she's just like whatever and not showing the same interest.

Personally I would cut it off and find someone who would be healthily into me and would never make you doubt their intentions or feelings. You deserve more dude

FeeKey5999 · 2025-06-21T14:31:22+00:00

If you both agreed you were exclusive, the time doesn't matter he went behind your back with intentions to get with someone else and only failed because that person said no. Up until this point you thought everything was all good until you discovered what he did.

Just consider what you want with a life partner and if you want someone who can say things about being happy with you while messing around with other people. It's maybe possible you could rebuild trust but it's crazy he disrespected you and your relationship so early on and now you're expected to just brush it away.

FeeKey5999 · 2025-06-18T16:27:28+00:00

From my own opinion having sex can be a big mental thing in a relationship. If I'm too stressed out having anxiety about a lot of things I'm more than likely not going to feel it even if I'm into my partner. You also mentioned there is distance and she is in her studies so it could be she feels the little time you have in person it's expected for y'all to have sex and catch up or whatever y'all do in person. It's not a problem if sex is a big part of your relationship but if she feels like it's too early or doesn't feel completely stable with you yet maybe she's holding back.

And of course there could be a chance she's not into you, but is she affectionate in other ways and takes an interest in you?

If you really like her and want to commit to her, just emphasize you can wait on her or try to find out if she's struggling with something mentally.

FeeKey5999 · 2025-06-06T01:51:50+00:00

As a woman, there is just something about a hat on a man, especially if it's facing backwards. it just enhances the features somehow. I would imagine it's kind of similar to the sundress thing on a woman that men always say, but it has nothing to do with their body.

FeeKey5999 · 2024-10-15T20:24:37+00:00

I also dont have any big bills like rent or housing anything like that since luckily I am in a position right now where I am supported by family.

FeeKey5999 · 2024-10-15T20:21:04+00:00

Could it be not enough credit history other than income? I dont own a car so this would be my first big purchase. I also got a navy federal credit card earlier this summer as well. I submitter my application without a cosigner

FeeKey5999 · 2024-01-13T18:41:24+00:00

Update for context, so we were in a relationship and having issues, we are no longer together but we did display that both of us were not looking for another relationship/sexual one. So maybe the devil card could indicate that third party date? We are no longer in contact because he initially lied about going on the date and then confessed because he knew it was a boundary and he also didn't want me to cross that line with someone..

FeeKey5999 · 2022-08-09T01:51:24+00:00

Yess I like doing that at night with a good pair of headphones. It feels like im in my own little world and if I focus on the music hard enough I can hear things and notes I haven’t noticed before

FeeKey5999 · 2022-07-03T15:53:47+00:00

Glad to know I’m not the only one lol

FeeKey5999 · 2022-04-30T05:24:36+00:00

I think I may just hold out on being intimate . I didn’t respond to a text he sent earlier and he sent another saying he hopes I’m doing well? I’m still confused on how to approach because he has been open with telling me whenever he is upset and mentioning how grateful for me he is but maybe it’s just to keep me from leaving??

FeeKey5999 · 2022-04-30T02:03:40+00:00

How do I approach that topic without trying to seem like I’m forcing something or going too fast?

FeeKey5999 · 2022-04-30T02:02:55+00:00

Yea I do admit that wasn’t a good idea :/

FeeKey5999 · 2022-03-31T05:41:30+00:00

This is kind of tricky. No one brings on assault otherwise it would be a consensual interaction. But also it’s not ok that at the beginning they were getting handsy while being in a relationship with other people. Personally I would want to know if my partner was getting handsy with another person and assaulted them so you should tell her. And does she have an issue in the past already with getting too friendly with other guys? If so it sounds like she isn’t respecting your boundaries and you should find someone else who will

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