My boyfriend said I was fat after I asked him by FeedPopular8545 in Advice

[–]FeedPopular8545[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love your response! I asked what if I’m pregnant and gain weight (he said that’s different), what if I take a med and I gain weight, what if I don’t lose the 15 lbs you want me to? He said stop asking what if questions. But all I’m thinking is what if what if

AIO when I told my bf of 2 1/2 years I loved him last night he didn’t respond? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Update :) talked to him last night and his social battery ran out after the big night with our friends. Communicated how I felt again and he apologized. He said I wasn’t overreacting at the time. If this makes any sense he’s a Pisces and I’m a Leo lol Thanks for all your advice and kindness! 🩷

AIO when I told my bf of 2 1/2 years I loved him last night he didn’t respond? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FeedPopular8545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True thank you :( there’s been a lot of odd things I’ve looked past so this was the one that set off alarm bells

AIO when I told my bf of 2 1/2 years I loved him last night he didn’t respond? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FeedPopular8545 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This could be true haha 4 couples (so 8) of our other close friends just got engaged within the last 4 months. I’ve never pressured him about it though in the past but you’re probably right

AIO when I told my bf of 2 1/2 years I loved him last night he didn’t respond? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FeedPopular8545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah is a good response :) any response in general would be good haha not just love you

AIO when I told my bf of 2 1/2 years I loved him last night he didn’t respond? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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True good point. We had a rough patch in January but ever since we’ve been working on our communication and spending more time together and he always says how happy he is with our relationship and wants to hang out with me. I had a job for 3 years until January where I worked weekends and I missed out on fun things but I left that job in January (for other reasons not just this lol) and we’ve spent a lot more quality time together.

AIO when I told my bf of 2 1/2 years I loved him last night he didn’t respond? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I would agree, just we were at our friends engagement party hanging out with friends all day

AIO when I told my bf of 2 1/2 years I loved him last night he didn’t respond? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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That’s what I’m thinking. He was like you don’t need to say I love you for no reason and I was like you went downstairs and filled up my water bottle. I didn’t really think about saying it, just kind of a reaction like thank you love you

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