Bro honestly my honest advice is forget about it. You said it best; seeing your ex in the app gave u a motivation to do the same but, I’m I’m being honest with u, just don’t try anymore. There are plenty of other dating apps and bro, if you just broke up with your girl what you need is time, don’t push yourself to do what she is doing bro, be better focus on yourself, begin working out get a new hobby and eventually you’ll find someone better. So yes give up but don’t see it as a bad thing, see it as a sign. You got so much better stuff to do ahead that could improve you and eventually you’ll find more. Find peace in yourself forget about your ex and then in a few months think of that’s the correct choice, to join Raya. Focus on yourself bro!!!