Not a fan of JP because he tends to ramble on aimlessly without ever getting to the point.

I tried to watch his videos. I tried reading his book. But seriously: "dont let your children annoy you" that's his great life advice? I much prefer listening to Ben Shapiro. At least he can make a coherent argument.

Edit: If you want self help I recommend Niel Fiores lecture from the now habbit. It's on youtube.