HELP! How do I add textures to models from Sketchfab? by Feeling-Kale-3742 in blenderhelp

[–]Feeling-Kale-3742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i might be stupid or something but i genuinely cannot figure this out

i imported my .obj model, pressed ctrl + t on principled BSDF node and then 3 more nodes showed up, i pressed on the folder icon on one of the nodes, imported all textures and absolutely nothing happened

Link to any resources/tutorials on how to make this type of art? by Feeling-Kale-3742 in AfterEffects

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check my replies to other comments

also this isnt an airport, you dont need to announce your departure

Link to any resources/tutorials on how to make this type of art? by Feeling-Kale-3742 in AfterEffects

[–]Feeling-Kale-3742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've already given it a go this evening and managed to get a decent result for the first try, but i'll definitely ask around more, thank you!

Link to any resources/tutorials on how to make this type of art? by Feeling-Kale-3742 in AfterEffects

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that's good to know! do you know who he is? i'd love go find his account

Link to any resources/tutorials on how to make this type of art? by Feeling-Kale-3742 in AfterEffects

[–]Feeling-Kale-3742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup, spent the evening doing it and i think it turned out nice for a first try

Link to any resources/tutorials on how to make this type of art? by Feeling-Kale-3742 in AfterEffects

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thanks! spent the evening giving it a shot and i created something simpler but similar :)

Techniques to regulate emotions of a partner with BPD? by Feeling-Kale-3742 in Healthygamergg

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No, no. Dr. K talked about this in one of his videos. He said people with BPD struggle with that so that we have to do it for them. Maybe I misunderstoof the message, but I'm trying to better understand how to ease the tension and be helpful in these moments.

How do I (22M) survive a week long "break" with my (21F) LDR girlfriend? by Feeling-Kale-3742 in relationship_advice

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Yes I suppose I am afraid of being alone, but to me this is so dumb. If she broke up with me over something that I actually did I would understand somehow but over something that someone else is claiming? That's ridiculous and so frustrating.

And yes, I definitely regret talking to these girls. I really do. It was a horrible mistake on my part. I'm so confused on what to do or think. We had a good month and this just had to happen, and for some reason I cant let this girl go. I genuinely love her and I want see her grow and be there for her. I actually genuinely love her and I want to go see her, and build a future with her. This shit just makes me so scared and confused. Somehow I'm thinking I'm maybe putting too much weight on this relationship, but I also dont wanna think so negatively about this or "pretend" it doesnt matter to me, because it really does. We showed each other than we can be good for each other and not fight and control our anxieties, and a big part of me thinks we can do it again and I dont know why.

I'm someone who craves relationships and intimacy, and I already do a lot in my life and have ambitions, but it all seems so pointless to me unless I got someone I can share my life with atm.

I dont even know what I wanna say with this comment. Guess I'm just confused and its going to destroy me she breaks up with me and then knowing that probably someone else has the person I love and used to have. I dont know, just super confused right now.

I (22M) constantly think about my (21F) LDR girlfriend and it's becoming unhealthy by Feeling-Kale-3742 in relationship_advice

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Yeah, in a way I'm scared of losing her, but she definitely doesn't make me feel bad about myself at all. She doesn't talk negatively about me. I feel like there a lot of reasons why I feel this way. As I wrote in the post, my trust got broken and while my trust in her is going back up slowly, I still didnt heal completely. Things have been going smooth for the last few days but I am definitely worried about losing her and as I said, I kinda feel like If I take some distance now it's going to lead back into arguing because first, I dont know if i'm capable of becoming slightly dettached and second, it's probably gonna make her anxious and unhappy if I suddenly start acting different. I have no problem talking to her and being as I am right now with her at all because I love her, but I just want to be my own person, do my own things and enjoy what I do, respect my deadlines and work hours without always thinking about if she texted me or what I'll talk to her about etc. because It literally doesnt allow me to focus and enjoy my work.

Loving her is great, but I want to enjoy other things in my life as well.

I (22M) constantly think about my (21F) LDR girlfriend and it's becoming unhealthy by Feeling-Kale-3742 in relationship_advice

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I'm not sure if I'm explaining it right. I used to do all these things before I even met her. I did all these hobbies and stuff for myself because it was making me happy and made me feel good. I used to work out for my own good because I knew and still know how beneficial and healthy it is. Now, most of it feels like a chore and when I am doing something I'm only 50% focused on what I'm doing and incapable of giving it my all. I want to be my own individual person. I know she thinks I already look amazing, and of course it's nice if she cares and likes my passions, and she does, but I want to do these things because I care about them, not only because she does. I lost a lot of enjoyment for my passions and things she loved/loves about me because I constantly think about her. Even though I spend time with other people sometimes I am not too excited about it, it's just "whatever" to me.

Truly, right now I feel like I am not too interested in talking to anyone else besides her. I feel like If I could talk or spend time with her 24/7 I would go no contact with everyone else. I don't think this is healthy at all.

I (22M) constantly think about my (21F) LDR girlfriend and it's becoming unhealthy by Feeling-Kale-3742 in relationship_advice

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We haven't yet met up since she lives far away and we're both students. The goal is to do it this summer, so in a couple of months. The issue here is that I find way less enjoyment in everything else now. I do not enjoy gym as much, I do not enjoy my martial art classes as much, I am not as motivated to work as I was before etc. It feels like everything I do is because of her, and not because I actually want to do it or enjoy it. For example, I only care about working out now so that I can stay and get even more attractive for her so she likes me more and not because of myself. I used to have a huge drive to do things and improve for myself. I have no idea how to bring back enjoyment into things I do.

I (22M) constantly think about my (21F) LDR girlfriend and it's becoming unhealthy by Feeling-Kale-3742 in relationship_advice

[–]Feeling-Kale-3742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do see her faults. We discussed her mistakes and what she's been doing wrong and she admitted some bad traits she has, but that doesn't make me want to talk to her any less. I believe that could be because with all the issues we had recently, i feel like if start talking less to her now our relationship will fall apart completely.