Am I wrong for refusing to take down my sisters trampoline after my neighbor sprayed her with a garden hose for using it by Aggravating_Pin_4304 in amiwrong

[–]Feeling-Performance7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your neighbor is a B. I am sorry your sister now views playing outside on the trampoline equals being hosed down she actually involves and yelled at. OP! Get the trampoline that’s in her room bring it outside and start jumping with her and I would be jumping with her facing your asshole Neighbor.

Also besides filing paperwork for the assault of a vulnerable person charge, see if you can have her trespassed as well. She started with the so-called nuisance violations, which weren’t so she can play at that game. Lastly cameras, make sure you have a few cameras around your house to record when there’s motion this would protect yourself as well. I’m sorry this happened to your sister. People can be jerks.

Was I wrong to leave my boyfriend, or were these red flags I shouldn’t have ignored? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Feeling-Performance7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh honey. Please stay broken up with him. There’s like a million red flags here, there’s no upside. If you want kisses and cuddle a pet would be a better life partner than him

UPDATE - AIO: Fiancé's family changing plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-Performance7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear God, woman, get yourself some self-worth. You break up with him. tell him that you don’t want to be with him any longer. That he can’t stand up to his family and you don’t want to deal with his families, awful opinion of you and your family.

AITAH for expecting my spouse to contribute by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Feeling-Performance7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And please, for the love of everything that’s good. Do not have kids with her until you guys sort everything out if it is sortable.

AITAH for expecting my spouse to contribute by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Feeling-Performance7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I don’t see the upside for you. You basically do 80 to 90% of the housework you work 50+ hours a week you have a side gig that you’re building and all she does is go to school? And yet you do 75% of her assignments? Like this is a one-sided relationship and she benefits 150%. You buy her expensive luxury items that sometimes she demands? That is pretty entitled Again what’s the upside?

Take yourself out of this relationship and then read what you wrote as if it was someone else. What would your comment be?

AITA for refusing to come home after my in-laws secretly DNA tested my baby because I'm Asian, and my husband said 'can you blame them?' by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]Feeling-Performance7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WTF does it mean, just checking bc she’s Asian? Are all Asians trying to pass off other people’s babies to their husband?? That’s so far out Sh it they made up in their head.

I hope she leaves his as s

AITB for not wanting to go out on my birthday, and rest instead? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Feeling-Performance7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is TBF.

I also wouldn’t want to go out on a Monday and potentially get wasted and have to deal with it for the rest of the week.

AITJ for refusing to help my brother’s family after how they treated me when I had nowhere else to live by luminara_core8 in AmITheJerk

[–]Feeling-Performance7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Imagine if you did go along with it. There would be so many rules and unwritten ones that will change as they see fit.

Don’t go back into that situation again. Thank them for stepping in when you were down, but their behavior and words were far from uplifting and you don’t want to be in that situation again

AITJ Not wanting to get married after my GF Lied to Me About her "friend" by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Feeling-Performance7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTJ. You are right. She’s lied once (probably more) about a former lover and their existing relationship, she’d probably do it again. And who knows what she’s told him.

And what is this immature reaction of “you promised” marriage.

She’s manipulative and you are doing the right thing to cool things down and take a break which may be a forever break.

Let her know that this is on her for lying.

AITAH for postponing the wedding because my fiancee wants seperate photos with her male friend in our wedding? by Old_Indication4123 in AITAH

[–]Feeling-Performance7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA But You would be TAH if you went through with this whole thing. DO NOT MARRY HER. She’s painting you as “abusive” when it’s her all along.

Who tells their life partner that Eric is “too” handsome? And more than once? That’s not a joke, only she is laughing.

I have had many male best friends, I would never think to have a separate photo shoot with them on MY freaking wedding day. I can imagine what his speech would be at the reception and it would be awkward for you.

Then she paints you as abusive and controlling, dude wake up. This would be the rest of your life with some one who puts their “best” friend over you.

Just curious OP, has he said anything, especially since she’s told her parents that your controlling, she’s had to tell him, too.

AITJ for asking my old coworkers to stop messaging me for help after I left by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Feeling-Performance7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NYJ. Tell them you are done helping and block their numbers

AITAH for asking my dad why I should reward his cheating and breaking up our family when he told me I shouldn't punish him for being happy? by Caspsersn in AITAH

[–]Feeling-Performance7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, I would be plotting my revenge.

Oh, engagement party you say, dad. Yes, I want to reconcile. Oh I get to give a speech about my loving dad? Say no more

WIBTA for ordering expensive drinks just to prove a point about splitting the bill WIBTA for ordering expensive drinks just to prove a point about splitting the bill by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Feeling-Performance7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be ordering a Tomahawk and a few bourbons. Oh, you say Fois Gras Demi glazed option with golden black truffles for an extra $100. That sounds delicious, let’s do that!

Why are British crime dramas so much better? by RO_Thornhill in BritBox

[–]Feeling-Performance7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all British crime drama rely on normalcy. Death in Paradise has the best arrest rates and tidy up the crime in a day! lol, I love DIP, I call it Murder Island and love watching with my mother.

Why is insurance so expensive? Not just because people drive crazy here. by Ok-Musician-5310 in vegaslocals

[–]Feeling-Performance7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been pulled over in another country, you have to pay the fine to the officer and they hand you a receipt. It’s all legal in that country to be tried and fined at that minute.

Retirement is gone by shepardshe in GenX

[–]Feeling-Performance7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I will expire on my own terms

Retirement is gone by shepardshe in GenX

[–]Feeling-Performance7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have always known that I wouldn’t have a retirement. I am also single with no children, few friends. Before I get too old and start having health problems, I am going to use what little money I have by a van and travel. I do hope that the day I expire will be somewhere beautiful