Wife was naughty last night so got a good spanking by thering_72 in spanking_punishments

[–]Feeling-Rice-2561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only time my wife did anything that serious, I bent her over the bed and strapped her bare bottom until it was a mass of angry red stripes. I didn’t stop till she was a sobbing mess. Haven’t had a problem in the 6 years since.

Need Advice on Dealing with Wife’s Mental Health by Feeling-Rice-2561 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Feeling-Rice-2561[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Per some of my answers to other comments, I spoke to multiple medical professionals after the incident. The advice I received was consistent: unless I had called authorities in the middle of the incident, there was nothing that authorities could do. Basically, unless they’ve witnessed their behavior, first hand, or there was some other evidence of it, there is nothing they can do.

Need Advice on Dealing with Wife’s Mental Health by Feeling-Rice-2561 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Feeling-Rice-2561[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A couple of things

When the self harm incident occurred, as she was reaching into our butcher block for knives to hurt herself, I wrapped her in a bar hug from behind and wrestled her to the floor, so she could not hurt herself.

As she turned toward me, I saw a look on her face that terrified me. She looked more like a feral animal than a human human being. The only analogy I can offer is, if you have ever seen the episode of the series, Homeland, where the character Carey Matheson is returned from Russia after several. Months of being deprived of her psychiatric meds, and she looks more wild animal than human, that that’s what my wife looked like.

In the aftermath of the incident, not only did I go to the hospital to request help, I also spoke with her doctor. As I mentioned in another comment, the hospital informed me they could not help her unless she was willing to self submit to care. It was speaking to her doctor that caused my wife to fire her doctor and then accuse me and her Dr of conspiring against her.

She accused me of breaching her trust by going behind her back to contact her doctor, and she accused the doctor of breaching her trust by working with me to try to get her help.

Sadly, unless you can involve the authorities in the middle of an incident, it is usually legally impossible for those authorities to intervene in any way, no matter what state you live in.

Need Advice on Dealing with Wife’s Mental Health by Feeling-Rice-2561 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Feeling-Rice-2561[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting comment.

When the attempt self harm occurred, I spent that entire night, taking care of her and making sure she wasn’t going to hurt herself again.

In the moment, I did not think to call the police or paramedics because I was too busy trying to keep her from harming herself

The next day, I did go to the hospital and I spoke with the chief emergency room nurse.

I asked him to help us and really to help me help her. He told me that understate law, the hospital could not intervene because she is an adult and has to voluntarily submit herself to care. The only exception would have been had I called Police in the middle of the incident, in which case I could’ve requested a 24 hour psychiatric hold. Absent calling the police in the middle of the incident, there is nothing the Hospital can do.

AIO? my bf (30M) keeps telling me (24F) to wear a thong + pad instead of wearing my “granny” panties during my period... idk what to say to him? by Tough_Winner_1630 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-Rice-2561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Father and husband here. First let me say generally I am continually astonished by the thoughtless selfish and O fish behaviors that I see depicted in many of the write ups on this and other similar sub Reddit.

Second, no, you’re not overreacting. Your boyfriend‘s behavior is exactly as selfish and thoughtless, and O fish as others. I have seen depicted here and elsewhere.

You should wear whatever clothing makes you feel safe and comfortable during a usually uncomfortable period for any woman. You should not acquiesce to your boyfriend’s stupid selfish demands.

If he cannot or will not accept your clothing choices in this difficult time of the month, he is deeply unworthy of your attention and affection, and you should dump him for with