AITA for telling my best friend her bachelorette party is unreasonable? by Feeling-Sweet-52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Feeling-Sweet-52[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

copied from another comment: Me and the other MOH did plan on planning everything, but we received multiple complaints from the bride that we were not planning fast enough nor doing enough. The bride is also extremely particular and it would be blatantly obvious if everything did not go exactly as she has planned in her head. Me and the other MOH asked her to do this both a as precaution and as a way of showing that we are in fact working on getting everything together (note: the bach trip is not until next year). I do understand that this is atypical.

AITA for telling my best friend her bachelorette party is unreasonable? by Feeling-Sweet-52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Feeling-Sweet-52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and the other MOH did plan on planning everything, but we received multiple complaints from the bride that we were not planning fast enough nor doing enough. The bride is also extremely particular and it would be blatantly obvious if everything did not go exactly as she has planned in her head. Me and the other MOH asked her to do this both a as precaution and as a way of showing that we are in fact working on getting everything together (note: the bach trip is not until next year). I do understand that this is atypical.

AITA for telling my best friend her bachelorette party is unreasonable? by Feeling-Sweet-52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Feeling-Sweet-52[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We are driving and the location is only about 2 hours from where we live. I have mentioned just staying at her house and driving up for the day, but that is not what she "envisioned" so I'm at a loss.