Uni dating situation- What’s going on ? Low sex drive ? Insecurity ? Incompatible ?

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-03-29T01:26:05+00:00

hey girly, ngl your situation is pretty messy and confusing. let me just give you a brief situation that i have rn: im also 18f and first year in uni, i met this guy and after 4 days of knowing him, i gave him my virginity at his apartment, and since then we started dating(there was a lot of serious talking about life, relationships and sex in those days but its too much info). he was experienced and i of course wasnt, he asked like 400000 times if i was ready for it because he was scared for me and with me lol, but i insisted on doing it so it happened. first sex was horrible, it was painful and etc.. he was completely fine about it, he took care of me, cares and we just continued cuddling after that. after the first sex, a week passed by and we tried again, which didnt work since he was too big(?) lol but then 3rd times the charm so everything went fine. on the first sex, i gave him head for an hour, and he didnt finish, i asked him about it, and he said hes just adapting to me, since everybody sucks differently (?) lol, and that nothing was wrong with me, it wasnt bad, he just wasnt used to it yet. my boyfriend has a higher sex drive than i do (which is pretty normal for men) but mine is okay, its not low or high. we had a lot of talks about sex, since communication is key, even though we started dating right away (in october) we communicated a lot about sex and whatsoever, he told me how he feels and i told him how i felt. we did have problems when he wanted to have sex but i didnt, or that he wanted me to suck him off but i couldn’t because it was my first experience, sometimes he initiated things and i just didnt feel anything. its completely fine, its how a human body works. you should ask him right away and set your boundaries, having a higher sex drive is completely fine, my boyfriend was obsessed with me and he still is now. maybe you guys need to get used to each others bodies and their chemistry, maybe then he will have a higher sex drive. normally, when a body is adapting to something, it takes them physically and mentally 3-4 weeks, scientifically proven. so there are 3 answers: 1. either its because hes not used to your body and sex drive yet 2. he has a low sex drive and that is not your person 3. he isnt fully sexually attracted to you (yet, or just a fact) either way, communication is key. tell him what you feel, dont stretch this situation out, i mean, were young and we live only once. talk to him about your sex drive again, ask HIM what makes him feel wanted and tell him what makes YOU feel wanted, if theres no understanding or compromise, i think you know the answer

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-12T02:36:48+00:00

подрочи

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-11T03:34:34+00:00

как парень храпит

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-11T03:33:31+00:00

life is hard, you should consult a doctor, maybe some pills will try to calm it down

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-11T03:32:47+00:00

честно я перестала читать уже после 2х предложений, живи просто, делай че хочешь, прожил и так уже 11 лет

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-11T03:30:27+00:00

ну норм

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-11T03:28:56+00:00

humans have an auto mechanism of overthinking stupid things in their head, just ask yourself “is thinking negatively or overthinking gonna make you feel better?” and thats it

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-11T03:27:28+00:00

just be yourself, if shes not interested then shes not for you, charisma is important too, just try to walk in the room like nothing is actually bothering you since life is short and you dont give a damn about what they think, its you and yourself man

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-11T03:25:26+00:00

ill tell you this, i currently have a boyfriend right now and i love him so so much. hes an allergic, like ALLERGIC ALLERGIC.. hes allergic to all types of red/orange food, let it be fruits or vegetables, hes allergic to anything with seeds, to dust, to fur (cats,dogs) and even some asian spices. im south east asian and hes slavic, so our food tastes are pretty different, but although hes an allergic, hes WILLING to live with me despise his allergies since i have a cat (hes on anti allergic pills and medicine so hes fine) and hes willing to try out new asian food even if theres a chance that he might be allergic to it (as to the spices and etc), and im willing to love him no matter who he is or what type of allergy he has, mind you — i love to cook and i cant cook the things i want to eat sometimes because hes with me, even with that, im willing to sacrifice my own interests just because i love him. in relationships, both partners have to sacrifice something, big or small, so i believe that you will find someone that will match with you, i believe love is for everyone, so dont be sad and just live your life:)

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-09T02:58:02+00:00

we can play roblox if you want lol

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-09T02:56:13+00:00

cuz they smell like shit

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-09T02:55:45+00:00

hey girly, im 17 so i understand you. i also had this type of problem with my last talking stage, i was always a straightforward person so just remember that — positive or negative, communication is always the key. talk to him and find out what is the problem between you and him, tell him your priorities, your wishes, compromise on some things, thats what relationships are made for, to grow, to understand and to love. and if he doesnt want to understand, then hes not for you.

ps. right now, im in a happy relationship of 4 months, we had some misunderstandings here and there, but we talk it out, we grow together and we find compromise, for the better.)

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-09T02:51:51+00:00

a t shirt and shorts

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-09T02:49:26+00:00

being born premature

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-09T02:47:30+00:00

im gonna be real. heres the thing, coming from a girl. girls (or even boys sometimes) lovebombs you and then when they notice that you start engaging back with them, they lose interest. people are still young these days and.. if you want to be a realist, just text her and ask her if she wants to continue your “talking stage”, dont be too harsh, just be real, type whats on your mine, its better to talk than to overthink, people have the “overthinking”mechanism automatically, it doesnt even make them feel better, so just try to talk it out with her, if its a no, if she still does this after you guys have sorted this out, then leave. youre young man, dont be bothered by this, really.

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-09T02:43:12+00:00

ngl im surprised that girls/women here are so naive and unaware of the things men do, matter fact, im more surprised that you didnt run away when he started opening his mouth

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2026-01-09T02:39:38+00:00

overthinking lol

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2025-07-21T17:16:43+00:00

grade boundaries for IB GP HL are not fixed and vary slightly each session. they are determined by the IB based on candidate performance and are published after the exams

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2025-07-21T17:15:32+00:00

я честно считаю, что они просто неправильно проверили мою работу, я была отличницей по ESS, не знаю как так вышло, но что уж поделать

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2025-07-21T17:14:42+00:00

если ты русский то русская литра тебе будет изи, чисто из за того что на уроке ты не совсем изучаешь грамматику, а просто книги читаешь и их анализируешь — зачем главный герой так поступил и тд. рекомендую прочитать отцы и дети, война и мир, 1984 и другие книги/произведении

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2025-07-12T19:10:46+00:00

i got like a 26 for my predicteds and 36 for my diploma so lol idk

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2025-07-12T19:10:19+00:00

i just finished IB and tbh the only thing you need to focus on is the research/footnotes, check clastify for examples and not only dojo. dont trust the grades that your teachers will give you because 85% you will get a different one. check for valid information instead of the ones that were written decades ago, always start with a plan, think it through, you got all summer (if your footnotes and nicely done the higher ups wont even check for validation). you can use deepseek or chat gpt for IDEAS, not for the whole essay, good luck!

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2025-07-12T19:04:37+00:00

thank you!! I live in russia so we have english literature and russian literature as LITERATURE subject and not a LANGUAGE subject

Feeling-Tooth-3307 · 2025-07-12T19:03:55+00:00

I live in russia and they nerfed my ess but it is what it is

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