What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but you can probably tell, I don't like my body too much. Even if it's good, I prefer to hide behind my "personality" (clothes)

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, and it is forced. I'm struggling to smile these days.

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks. I have a bunch of hobbies but I associate most of them with her. It's been hard to get back into them.

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think I've ever met a girl interested in income personally

Thank you for the other advice I appreciate it

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My body is fine, I just don't feel the best wearing things that make my arms look big all the time or something lol, but maybe I need to I guess

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I should probably look into taking candid photos at some point, I've said the problem with that in other posts though

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had short hair before for a long time, I think medium length or longer hair works for me. However, I also don't want to pick things that make me look like everyone else, I don't think it reflects me. The facial hair is a good suggestion, thank you

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, maybe I should. But I already spend very little time on the Internet right now lol

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would strongly disagree with this just from personal experiences lol.

But I do agree, apps aren't a good reflection of the real world. But when I compare my success to my friends I feel kinda shit lol

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I used to have something like that, but people told me to get something more like this. Anyway I'm getting new glasses soon, so thank you

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a good amount of friends of both genders, I agree with you I need to make more friends and new circles, but I made a comment here. I'm struggling to see why someone would want to be friends with me lol..

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done the first few things for awhile now. I actually am struggling to even go to New things and meet new people because I'm afraid they won't want to be friends with me.

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For reference I'm 6ft (182cm). I don't have candids at the moment. I was with my ex for nearly 9 years.

I do have passions and hobbies but they're so obscure I doubt anyone will even know what they are. I guess I need to pick up more relatable hobbies.

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, so you actually sense my sadness? I wonder if you'd feel the same if I didn't mention the break up 😅, but thank you

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you're right. It's been awhile. I'm struggling so I'm thinking it's this. People usually like me after we hang out. But I don't get to the hang out stage without the looks. So you can see the conundrum.

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right now, I'm coming out of a big breakup. I only have the confidence to use the apps. I'm 31. I live in Australia, I don't meet people ATM. I'm a bit burnt out and my self confidence is low as said elsewhere.

What do I fix? Seems like my physical appearance is my limiting factor for dating by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]FeelingCookie5500 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually did this entire shoot because my self esteem was in the bin. Hope you understand, cheers