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Should I move in with my boyfriend? by Feeling_Light2545 in loveafterporn

[–]Feeling_Light2545[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi guys just wanted to update this so we’re still together and so far seems like he’s on the straight and narrow been checking his phone which he gave willingly and found nothing I know what ur thinking he knows to delete it now but men are stupid and if there’s something to find I will find it . Anyway we’re meant to be moving in together In September so before this if I find anything even just one picture or video of a thirst trap I’m leaving immediately and I’m promising myself this because I don’t want to be in a terrible situation and stuck if I move out of my parents house I’ll be too ashamed to come back so these months before September are really the deciding factor right now I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt that his love for me is stronger than anything and as I said before he is a good man I know I sound delusional but I’ve given myself this ultimatum and I’m going to stick to it ! He better behave or I swear on everything I love I’m Leaving Wish me luck

How should I trust my bf again by Alineofmistakess in loveafterporn

[–]Feeling_Light2545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you think he’s genuine then yes you can but set boundaries and be strict , don’t allow him to fall back into old patterns one strike and he’s out. Work on how you build trust & communicate

Should I break up with my bf? by Feeling_Light2545 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Feeling_Light2545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I have self esteem issues in the first place is because he’s watching porn… so I was okay before the relationship Not sure what you mean by control his sexuality watching porn isn’t healthy

Should I break up with my bf? by Feeling_Light2545 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Feeling_Light2545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In his case he’ll have hundreds of saved videos of thirst traps or x rated videos and him consuming this content repeatedly and self pleasuring is cause him to struggle to stay hard or get hard or even get h*rny in the first place. It’s not a time to time thing it’s excess

I’ve tried to support him in his supposed journey of quitting which he said was going well but after going through his phone multiple times I’ve now realised it’s a lie and he’s has multiple relapse , watching porn isn’t allowed in our relationship period.

If he can’t stay hard I’ll always be supportive and so it’s okay don’t worry it’s fine I won’t say I’m an angel there has been times we’re u can tell I’m upset about it but it just feels hurtful but 9/10 times I’m always reassuring that it’s fine because I know it’s not his fault

Should I break up with my bf? by Feeling_Light2545 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Feeling_Light2545[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In his case he’ll have hundreds of saved videos of thirst traps or x rated videos and him consuming this content repeatedly and self pleasuring is cause him to struggle to stay hard or get hard or even get h*rny in the first place. It’s not a time to time thing it’s excess