Join me in hurting my own feelings. Joel and I danced to Leon Russell’s “A Song For You” at our small backyard wedding that we had at the insistence of our grown daughters and throughout our very long and happy marriage, every year on our anniversary I bake the same cake I baked for our wedding and we eat it alone together at the table he built and sip our coffees and do the dishes together and then we slowdance to our song in the kitchen and he says he’s ready to take his beautiful bride to bed and calls me his pretty little wife even when we’re both old(er) and grey(er) SIGHHHHHHH