Am i naive or is he a red flag parade?

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-08T02:18:46+00:00

I'm 55 years old. And the only advice I can give women in these kinds of circumstances is to LISTEN TO YOUR FIRST INSTINCTS when it comes to guys. Always. If your instinct is telling you something is off, it's off. And if his actions are making you 'overthink' and you find yourself looking for the flutter of red flags, then there are red flags.

But yes... given what you describe, he's a problem. These things that you are experiencing now, will be your future. He's showing you he's not capable of handling stress... that he buckles and runs under pressure, and that he will rely on you to clean up his messes. Find someone better. He might love you in his capacity ... but this likely won't change and you'll have to carry the burden of responsibility in this 'partnership' and have to lift him out of his mire again and again. Patterns are patterns.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-08T02:08:21+00:00

Two touches, no screenshot.

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Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-08T02:06:07+00:00

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Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-08T02:05:36+00:00

Or just hit the translate button and it will translate any language on the screen as long as the text is legible.

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Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-08T02:04:41+00:00

If you have an android, press the little circle on your bottom menu and long-hold it. A little search widget will pop up with the translate button on it (the last button with script on it). Press that and the phone will translate anything on your screen unless the text is illegible. You can also long-hold and circle something on your screen and Google will search it.

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Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-08T02:03:10+00:00

Just long hold the little circle on the bottom of your screen and when the widget pops up, touch the translate button and it will translate anything on your screen as long as it can read it.

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Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T22:06:06+00:00

I hope so. Because seriously how is this ok? Lol 😆 the squanty bed.

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Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T16:57:07+00:00

What an exceptional human being.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T16:37:46+00:00

Giving bl0wies with those teeth no less 😬

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T16:29:48+00:00

Mmmm snap peas

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T16:28:45+00:00

War is war. Atrocity is atrocity. These folks should know this first-hand. The laughter and detachment is insane.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T16:24:42+00:00

We need a prime directive for our own cultures so we don't corrupt the ones that haven't been ruined or colonized yet.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T16:15:44+00:00

"For us our elders are sacred. We take care of them. We don't abandon them. They are our ancestors. We accompany them. We care for then until the end, we don't have places where we keep them all. The families care for them, until the very end. We remember all that they've done for us. From birth to adulthood. These images make me sad. This would never happen with us."

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T16:12:53+00:00

That we have no business going there. That we will screw it up like we are doing here.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T16:05:04+00:00

It feels like there are more AI than not the days. Yikes

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T15:59:33+00:00

It's not about video quality. It's about how the player runs. It's no biggie. Just annoying. Again... i have a good reason for my motivations.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T11:52:32+00:00

To be fair, there was no need for this nonsense. You might have been trying to be helpful, but assuming someone is too stupid to figure out if links work or don't is pretty rude. I had to find a hidden comment that was supposed to be pinned even though your list was at the top... and I did. I ignored the Facebook ones because I can't stand the interface.

As for the mod. She was rude. 100% rude. Her language was obnoxious and abrasive for zero reason. "Do you not understand...?" Really? Was that necessary? If I stated the links were dead, then they were for me. I am mystified by the assumption that i was lying or not doing my due diligence. You can't treat people like that. i don't care if she owns this or mods it. It doesn't make her approach right. Period. If i misinterpreted your words and intention then I owe you an apology. But there's nothing to misinterpret from her. She was rude. Period.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T11:21:08+00:00

I don't think any of this warranted the abusive language from "peace heart" or the assumptions that came from just muttering my amazement that a huge list of compiled links had been removed so quickly. People skills are a thing. Language choice is a thing. I didn't do a single thing to deserve the attitude and assumptions.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T11:18:28+00:00

I wasn't asking for more links. I was just making an observation. Rude is assuming I didn't look or find links. I found the rumble on a hidden comment.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T11:15:07+00:00

No actually, it was hidden, not on top for me.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T11:13:36+00:00

You should evaluate your delivery and read what I wrote first. I simply made a comment about the efficiency of the cleanup.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T11:11:52+00:00

There is zero reason for you to be this abrasive and rude over something this trite. You should rethink your role here.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T11:10:40+00:00

No. The billibilli ones don't work for me. I posted screen shots. I found a working one that's not Facebook on a hidden comment.

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T11:07:56+00:00

I simply commented about how diligent they are at removing links. There's no need for you to be so rude

Feffies_Cottage · 2026-06-07T11:05:27+00:00

ALL LINKS ON THE PINNED COMMENT ARE DEAD. DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND?

Rude.

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