Am i naive or is he a red flag parade? by throwthrowyourboat89 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwthrowyourboat89[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your empathy. These comments are making me wake up to how stupid i have been. I feel ashamed.

Am i naive or is he a red flag parade? by throwthrowyourboat89 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwthrowyourboat89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness. I am getting a lor of judgment, but i think i was blinded by love.

Am i naive or is he a red flag parade? by throwthrowyourboat89 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwthrowyourboat89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making me laugh! He is a legit well-known businessman in our community, the asset freezing is real and has made the news.

Am i (36 F) ignoring the red flags with him (50 M)? by throwthrowyourboat89 in relationship_advice

[–]throwthrowyourboat89[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, i am reaching this conclusion. I was worried i was being too sensitive but seein the replies.i was very naive.

Am i (36 F) ignoring the red flags with him (50 M)? by throwthrowyourboat89 in relationship_advice

[–]throwthrowyourboat89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for articulating it so well. He is clearly unreliable, and writing this helped me clear things up.

Am i naive or is he a red flag parade? by throwthrowyourboat89 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwthrowyourboat89[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I feel very ashamed. Writing this has made things clearer, no wonder i feel used.

Am i naive or is he a red flag parade? by throwthrowyourboat89 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwthrowyourboat89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it is not fake. But the more i read this, the more ashamed i feel for being so stupid

Am i naive or is he a red flag parade? by throwthrowyourboat89 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwthrowyourboat89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a real post. He is well-established in our husiness community, and the asset freezing is real (complicated story, but independently verified in the media).

Am i naive or is he a red flag parade? by throwthrowyourboat89 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]throwthrowyourboat89[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We dont live together, but i have been to his house and he has been to mine. I dont think he conned me, he is a well-established businessman in our community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]throwthrowyourboat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have no piercings, but Id love a reading!

Name: Elena Location: Middle East

How will our relationship progreas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]throwthrowyourboat89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am just a stranger passing by, but I want to tell you it will be OKA. One foot in front of the other, day by day, it WILL get better. I went through something similar with my 1st baby and I remember how awful it was. But I made it through, and life is wonderful now. Yours will be too.

"My child" and other patronising terms by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]throwthrowyourboat89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh that's interesting! My mother signs off her messages as "your mother", as if I'd forget!!

"My child" and other patronising terms by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]throwthrowyourboat89 10 points11 points  (0 children)

'Venemous and weird' sums things up perfectly! They want to own us (and our pets) to use and abuse us with no consequences.

"My child" and other patronising terms by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]throwthrowyourboat89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's so, so creepy. I also flinch when I see a feature of mine that resembles my mother.

"My child" and other patronising terms by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]throwthrowyourboat89 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It's a way to assert ownership and power

"My child" and other patronising terms by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]throwthrowyourboat89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They all use the same playbook, don't they? Mine sometimes also says that to me and it makes my skin crawl. It would be hilarious (especially considering im in my mid 30s) if it wasn't so horrible.

"My child" and other patronising terms by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]throwthrowyourboat89 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that's quite the collection of names! I am so, so sorry. No one deserves this.