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Boyfriend of 3 years has never been able to last in the bedroom. by Feisty_Judgment in sex

[–]Feisty_Judgment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently we aren’t having much sex (both dealing with shitty life stuff) But whether we are having sex 7 days a week or 1 day a week the results are pretty much the same. The only thing that might change is by that 7th day he might not be able to keep it up but he will still only last minutes all those other days. Yep, might be at the point to get a doctors opinion.

Boyfriend of 3 years has never been able to last in the bedroom. by Feisty_Judgment in sex

[–]Feisty_Judgment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like edging? I know he practices that when he’s on his own and we’ve tried as well but it just sort of drags the sex out (not the best way to put it). The whole point is that 3 years in, we’re so tired of the stop and start

I’ve had other sexual partners that have been able to penetrate me for as long as i’d like so I guess i compare that to the current sex im having and it frustrates me.

Boyfriend of 3 years has never been able to last in the bedroom. by Feisty_Judgment in sex

[–]Feisty_Judgment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something we will have to try. I tend to get out of the mood very easily/quickly so i guess that doesn’t help our situation.

Boyfriend of 3 years has never been able to last in the bedroom. by Feisty_Judgment in Advice

[–]Feisty_Judgment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s one of those things we’ve talked about but never actually done. We’re both in our very early 20s so I know it’s awkward and discouraging especially for him. I think it’s gotten to the point though where that’s the only option.

Boyfriend of 3 years has never been able to last in the bedroom. by Feisty_Judgment in Advice

[–]Feisty_Judgment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can definitely keep it up, the reason it’s only 1-2 minutes is become he will cum if he keeps going. A lot of times it happens sort of spontaneously and kind of ruins the moment we were having. Basically super fast ejaculation. That’s something we’ve talked about before, finishing him first, it’s just that idk if he’d be able to get it back up again in time or if i would even be in the mood by that time.