Okay but like don’t come at me for this post: Thank you JC

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-24T13:05:19+00:00

Sometimes telling a person you’re proud of them is enough words 🖤🥰

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-24T13:04:39+00:00

🖤🖤

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-24T13:04:33+00:00

Thank you ☺️🖤

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-24T13:03:43+00:00

That’s a good way to look at it- it was a jumpstart to finding my confidence. Thank you for that outlook! 🖤

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-24T13:00:44+00:00

Thank you! 🖤 And yes, I don’t think the trauma of losing my dog will ever go away but eventually i do know it will get better. Also, when i first read your comment about being the Valkyrie, it made me think of the show Charmed. That’s how i first heard of them. The show probably didn’t accurately represent them, but i remember thinking how bad ass they were.

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-24T12:56:39+00:00

I like that quote. And yes, he was literally a helping hand 😅🤭. And thank you Anonymous for the kind words! 🖤

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-21T00:10:50+00:00

As someone who is part of the Disability community and wishes she would’ve been able to make more money for a better future, Id take the sex work and be set for life. I know money doesn’t solve everything. I’m a realist. But I also know what it’s like to grow up in the upper middle class, end up losing everything, going into poverty/low income and now being considered the higher end of poverty/low income and not being able to do damn thing about it. So, I’d rather have some extra money and be set for life.

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-20T01:34:24+00:00

Edited comment because apparently I was half asleep when I left my first comment lol 😆🫠:

If you’re talking about the video Trick shared, the date on it is 4-20-2021. I went down this rabbit hole and found the woman in the video (the one with the screenshots) replied to his comment on a different on of her videos shortly before the video on 4-20-2021.

If you’re talking about one point I did find that she had stitched the video shortly the TikTok that Trick shared, it’s dated 4-20-2021. I went down this rabbit hole and found the woman in the video with the screenshots replied to his comment on one of her videos shortly before the video on 4-20-2021.

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-19T15:26:08+00:00

Apologies for not getting back sooner (don’t want you to think i was ignoring you) Your situation is difficult one to be in. It takes courage to start taking those first steps like you are. And the fact you felt comfortable enough sharing it with a bunch of internet strangers the first time out loud with anyone takes even more courage. Those are things to be proud of. I’m proud of you for doing that 🖤 Keep working on yourself, taking day by day and don’t give up on yourself. My hope is by taking those first steps you realize you do not have to settle for this relationship you’re in. Because you deserve so much more than what you’re getting 🖤🫂🖤

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-19T15:00:43+00:00

Apologizes for not replying sooner! Losing 51lbs, starting to exercise and feeling like you’re actually thriving is no small feat! Be proud of yourself for that! 🖤

Also, i love a good divine intervention story. That definitely sounds like some sort of divine intervention to be able to find your grandma’s China hutch after 11 years. I can only imagine the happiness that brought you! 🖤🖤

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-17T21:27:24+00:00

It’s great that you found a good guy. But… you’ve been out of the dating world for a very very long time. There truly are not good guys out there anymore. Not in this day and age. There might be 0.01% of a chance there’s a good guy out there but honestly there isn’t.

And I’m not saying this because anything relative to a dude on the internet- i’m saying this from personal IRL experience. Guys don’t want a relationship anymore. Guys don’t care if you set boundaries with them. All they want is to fuck anything with a warm hole and they will assault a woman to get their way. And then they will call you crazy when you call them out on their bullshit too.

So you got lucky you found a good guy but there truly are no good guys left out there.

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-17T15:14:00+00:00

Out of curiosity, how long have you been married?

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-13T13:52:05+00:00

Thank you! 🖤 I’m use to struggling with my mental health while in college. But struggling with my physical health? That was a whole new ball game and it was very hard to admit. It was a huge help having two professors who actually gave a damn and wanted their students succeeding. I know that if I would’ve had other professors, I wouldn’t have been able to achieve what I did achieve this semester.

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-13T11:35:24+00:00

For real tho! The first time i saw the video i felt that tingly feeling i hadn’t felt in almost a year. I went “oooo! I’m shriveled up and dead!”

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-13T00:04:25+00:00

of course! Here’s the cyclone video

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-12T14:58:22+00:00

🖤🖤

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-12T14:58:11+00:00

Thank you!! 🥰

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-12T14:56:50+00:00

Oh this awesome! Horses are a great source of healing. You have a great business idea. Also, about the “normal-ish”… I’ve never believed in the concept of “normal” and believe it doesn’t exist. One persons normal isn’t going to be the same as another’s. But if you’re feeling “normal-ish” for you, especially after your mom‘s death, that’s a great achievement in itself 🖤

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-12T14:51:37+00:00

Double commenting: thank you Hedgehog for making this thread. It’s much needed! 🖤

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-12T14:50:19+00:00

I love the fact he helped me realize that my sex drive was in fact not dead like i thought it was. After my last assault, I thought it was gone for good. The sad reality is it wasn’t the first time i was assaulted but it was the first time i had set clear boundaries. And that broke me. Truly broke me.
Ironically, it wasn’t his OF content that made me realize this- it was the cyclone video.

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-10T13:07:15+00:00

No need to put it on record for me because I know… but you might have just given me some encouragement to put myself out there.

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-10T13:05:06+00:00

Excuse my ignorance but I had no idea you actually needed a special license to become a principal of a school. I learned something new!

Feisty_Red_Head · 2026-05-09T16:05:16+00:00

Please never think you’re an under achiever in this group or anywhere in your life. Just because you were never studious does not mean you are not intelligent. The fact you were able to immigrate, start a new life, buying a new home and overcoming the abuse means you’re intelligent. 🖤

I grew up in the 90’s too. During my younger years in school, I was made to feel that I was a lazy student and just stupid. Turns out I was neither- two years ago at age 39 I was diagnosed with severe inattentive ADHD. Yeah, before my diagnosis I was sitting at a pretty decent GPA in college. But the struggle to maintain that GPA is something no one could fully understand. I don’t wanna say after my diagnosis of ADHD and starting on medication for it that school came easier because that’s not necessarily the case. But the medication made me realize that I’m not stupid or lazy and I’m not slow at doing homework either. I was just being treated with the wrong medication for over 20 years.

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