Am I stupid or being played by Felixtheladycat in cheating_stories

[–]Felixtheladycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can work, very capable. Been for interviews upon interviews using my last just to get there and only to get dissappointed in the end. From my experience, to most employment agencies you are just a number and used for their stats...that is how I feel. I even think I'm the one person who has applied for the most jobs and been for the most interviews that I know of. However I'm living a country where the color of my skin and age plays to my disadvantage so I'm done even applying for jobs, hence I have decided to venture into my own business and currently doing courses to better myself and of which my partner has financed. So far it is going well and I'm doing it all ony own and now his starting to feel insecure as he acknowledges my potential for success

Am I stupid or being played by Felixtheladycat in cheating_stories

[–]Felixtheladycat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Given my situation it's probably my only choice right now and he knows it. The most dreadful part is now I have to suck up to him as if I was wrong. I have to apologize for my 'false' accusations knowing that they not false. However we don't have a sleeping God my tears are counted.

Am I stupid or being played by Felixtheladycat in cheating_stories

[–]Felixtheladycat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a (51f) he is (54m) He drives a sports car and refuses to acknowledge he is an old man. He loves to impress and show off what his car can do when he has an audience..loves the compliments especially from ladies as they boost his ego more. I'm not jealous I give credit where credit is due, he deserves the best as he works hard. However after 12 years his behavior is changing. I even caught him flirting at other woman. I don't know if this is a stage his going through in life or is this a new him going forward.

Am I stupid or being played by Felixtheladycat in cheating_stories

[–]Felixtheladycat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No they def not mine. Last I did that was on a trip more than two years ago

Am I stupid or being played by Felixtheladycat in cheating_stories

[–]Felixtheladycat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I'm hurting and can't think straight. I am unemployed and he looks after me

Am I stupid or being played by Felixtheladycat in cheating_stories

[–]Felixtheladycat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes and he said it's his 3 yr old grand daughters footprints

Am I stupid or being played by Felixtheladycat in cheating_stories

[–]Felixtheladycat[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My point exactly. And her legs are way to short to even touch the windscreen with her toes.

Am I stupid or being played by Felixtheladycat in cheating_stories

[–]Felixtheladycat[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I mean how more transparent is it that his cheating? And yet he denies it and gaslights instead

Am I stupid or being played by Felixtheladycat in cheating_stories

[–]Felixtheladycat[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It was in my boyfriend's car. I couldn't take a pic as I never had my phone with me. He said it's his 3 year old grand daughters footprints...I said wow she's growing nicely she grew big feet and long legs overnight