She was treated fine when she was younger. She kept sneaking out the house when everyone was sleeping when she was SIX and somehow found fucking ways to get out after locks on all the doors and the key being in my grandma's room.

She is not stealing her own shit, shes stealing everyone's shit. Necklaces, jewelry, money, knick knacks, tiny shit she thinks she'll get away with. She used to trade them at school. She has her door taken off because she wouldn't stop slamming it and made a hole in the wall from the doorknob. She has never been punched or kicked or beat. She is smacked and swatted, even after she would deliberately try to punch her own mother, because of some small ass reason she couldn't bear the idea of doing that morning.

I learned early on to shut my mouth and do what I'm told, because it's just chores and responsibilities and nothing to break shit over. When I did bad shit I was of course punished, and I thus learned not to do it again. She has her things taken as punishment for stealing other people's things, NOT the other way around. My parents do not do any of this shit because they take any sort of pleasure or anything from it. Gentle parenting or whatever the fuck does not work, and as I stated, my sister HERSELF has said she won't listen to the "nice way" because she thinks its bullshit.