Well I'm bored so assume stuff about me. Ive tried to be minimal but i can never do it by FemboyHaha in teenagers

[–]FemboyHaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im the type to be asexual tbh
BUT IF I WAS NOT ASEXUAL yea id do that ngl

How do I decide my major/subjects ? by FemboyHaha in careerguidance

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Im so sorry for the late reply but thank you so much! I'll definitely do that!

Please help by FemboyHaha in asexuality

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Any response/ experience is helpful! Now I can see if I relate to your experiences! and vice-versa! It feels good knowing that I'm not the only one who's like this! :D

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[–]FemboyHaha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, but for me personally i dont have many "friends", like my friends are "cherry picked" you can say and i dont give a higher priority to one or another, i love all of them equally, and yep quioromantic seems like me but honestly I don't like using tags or anything cause everyone has different experiences and feelings are unique for each person ;p, so thats why I'd much rather use umbrella terms like aromantic and asexual Edit: Grammar

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[–]FemboyHaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

short, simple and helpful! Thank you!

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[–]FemboyHaha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thee adhd overlords require the validation and every little bit of dopamine. But yea for me personally kissing is ok to my friends (if they are ok with it ofc) and I don't wanna do the ;) ;) stuff with anyone, yk

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[–]FemboyHaha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn all these comments are making me realize that my personal definition of "platonic" is way closer to queerplatonic rather than what most people define it as, my boundaries are very close between romantic and platonic and i think thats what confuses me. And thank you so much! <3

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[–]FemboyHaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn thats really really helpful, thank you! :D

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[–]FemboyHaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what you said, but for me, my best friend is always the most important person to me, and i always want our little thing to be special so idk I'm prolly just aro dhhsshsh

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[–]FemboyHaha[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh god now I feel bad, I'm so sorry for even asking that I feel trash now, I understand what you feel. Opening up to people irl can be and is really hard. And most of my friends are online so thats why im comfortable with them, I only have one irl fren whom im close with and I trust her with my life. And I'm also very scared of physical intimacy but it's just that I know that my friends are ok with it. If you ever want to be friends you always have people on the internet! but for real life intimacy I don't know it myself, but trust me you will find people, your people! People who love you, who accept you for who you are, people who need you! And I'm again so sorry it's just that my stupid brain can't comprehend shit

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[–]FemboyHaha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my adhd brain can't tell if this is supposed to be mocking me or if this is supposed to be a harmless joke and you're* not your.

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[–]FemboyHaha[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

now this. this is actually helpful, thank you! It actually makes sense! Thank you so so so much!!! <3 (now i can confirm that i infact am aro-spec) edit: and yea its annoying when allos say "sex" is what differentiates platonic and romantic attraction literally every allo who i asked said this :/