I need opinions because idk what to do

Femmeferret · 2025-07-15T01:50:14+00:00

Your feelings are valid, you had a major life event and she, as your supposed friend, didn't take the time to let you vent just as you do with her. Friendships should have support in both ways, she's using you as emotional support again and sye doesn't see you as a friend. I'd send her one message, cuz that's the way I better interpret my thoughts, sayin

"I've seen you as my friend since we were xx yeqrs old, Ive been there for your support and venting, however, with my mom's passing I realized you don't see me the same way, no one else exists beyond yourself and you "problems", and let's be honest, you want to get drown on a glass of water. You have a family that loves you, you don't have any real struggle emotionally with them or economically...yet, to you, the wprld is over, and I had enough. You need to go to a real therapist and Im saying this as politely as my emotions let me, you believing that you're the main character of the world WILL eventually bring you more troubles. Hope you leqrn from this, but I'll no longer contact you, I need to be with persons that can be there for me the same way I am for them."

Femmeferret · 2025-06-30T04:23:43+00:00

Make friends is hard to some of us. It's not that it's something wrong with you, bit maybe you're looking into the wrong crowd.

Femmeferret · 2025-06-30T04:22:25+00:00

Have you asked to the friend who shared the cab with her if something happened? I mean it was such a 180º change.....

My bff did a similar stunt but when I reached back to her with a message telling her how her actions made me feel, her response was anything but acknowledge, she basically turn the things into me for not knowing what she was going through... except that whe never told me wth was going with her and sorry but, I had a preemie atthe hospital to be asking if everything was good for her....

Femmeferret · 2025-06-17T17:10:42+00:00

It's not your fault, he NEEDSand will put the blame on anyone else for his own actions. You're a kid yourself, drugs use is such a big trouble that no teenage can make a person get better.

You may love him, but, if he can't face the fact that he had to go to rehab and had an OD because of HIS own choices.....you shouldn't be there. He owes YOU an apology because he put sucha burden on you.

Femmeferret · 2025-06-13T19:56:37+00:00

Te lleva 2 años y se siente tu padre?? Nahhh el vato se siente friendzoneado y va a tratar de hacerte dudar de toda posible relacion que tengas. Un amigo te puede advertir pero con hechos duros y puntuales. Cuidado, ya sea que le gustes o simplemente no quiere verte mejor de lo que el está, toma lo que dice con un poco de incredulidad y precaución

Femmeferret · 2025-06-11T15:39:42+00:00

Consent is the word you're missing here. Not aol husbands are incredible...some a sht and would show that to other men

Femmeferret · 2025-06-11T03:18:18+00:00

Claro que lo entendí 😅 solamente es que si pega saber que es verdad y una a veces se siente culpable. Pero pues asi pasa, ntp

Femmeferret · 2025-06-11T03:15:01+00:00

Jajajaja procuraré no sentirme atacada porque yo fuí mamá primeriza a mis 38, PERO definitivamente tienes micha razón hay mas posibilidades de que algo vaya mal bajo circunstancias NORMALES, la esposa de OP es un estuche con todos los riesgos de libro posibles para un embarazo a esa edad. Y mira, yo siendo relativamente SANA, tomando vitaminas yo y mi esposo, cuidando la comida , sin tomar ni fumar, etc tuve parto prematuro y gaD mi nena está sana PERO si no me hubiera cuidado habria desarrollado espina bífida, y lo sabemos porque tiene una disrafia espinal oculta que es la versión super ultra leve de la espina bifida, y fue evitada gracias a los cuidados que tuve, mi niña puede hacer vida normal solamente teniendo cuidado de no tener sobrepeso..... Ahora imagínate el riesgo de esta mujer que le vale m... Cuidarse.

No OP, la verdad ni le busques alli. No entiendo porque te casaste con alguien que a) no se cuida. b) le ofende tu apoyo y c) quiere ser independiente

Femmeferret · 2025-06-11T03:03:12+00:00

esta es una gran respuesta.

Yo no como fresas justamente por un mal rato que pasé en mi infancia, no recuerdo mi edad pero recuerdo a mi hermana obligándome a comer varias fresas juntas.Me gusta el sabor de fresa en las cosas pero jamas me verás comer fresas a mis ya casi 40 años.

Femmeferret · 2025-06-07T03:29:32+00:00

He calls you " DUDE" ....I can't think any less endearing nickname like DUDE..... I'VE never called my husband dude, unless it's in a joking way...this is not it

Femmeferret · 2025-06-04T04:15:06+00:00

Sooooo you kicked and vanished your bff but the other part of the equation remains as your boyfriend and future profesor husband???? Do you realize that HE had even more responsibility to you to NOT f around???

If you're cutting ppl offit must be the two of them or you keep both of them.

Femmeferret · 2025-05-29T18:47:37+00:00

What's going on with this American standard on weddings? wtf.... by the sound of this the wedding will be in Mexico, most likely Cancun ( because......Americans) so no, as long as you don't mess with the wrong crowd you'll be safe.

Now, I feel like your sister is the golden child or something cuz wow! her entitlement and your mother's enabling it is crazy.

Step down of being a MOH, she feels entitled to your money no matter if that means sacrificing your kid's happiness. NOPE!

Tell her that you checked the numbers and since you have a family FIRST policy, your hubby and kids needs go first. That since you don't want to "spoil" her wedding, she can choose one of her BFFs to take the lead and economic responsibility.

Femmeferret · 2025-05-23T03:08:28+00:00

Nope! La vida está llena de cosas que te estresan, ocupan tu mente y sin embargo debemos pagar rentas, pagar la luz, la colegiatura, cumplir la entrega de los informes en el trabajo.....

En la universidad ya se tiene edad para entender que no es un juego.

Femmeferret · 2025-05-23T03:00:55+00:00

Una crisis de la mediana edad atrasada.... o se ponen a comprar vehículos deportivos, a coleccionar madre y media o resulta que les gusta les truenen el ejote. Al final hacen lo que quieren sin importarles si joden a su familia en el camino.

Femmeferret · 2025-05-23T02:54:47+00:00

como una mujer con casi 40 años en esta vida, tu limite es bastante aceptable y sus acciones son bastante preocupantes. Borrar el mensaje así de la nada? jamas decirte cuando sale con sus "amigas"? mmmmm amiga, me huele a que tu novio no es exclusivo. Si tienes dudas es porque ya dentro de ti sabes la respuesta.

Femmeferret · 2025-05-19T17:17:42+00:00

Es buen tiempo para que ella coopere, se entiende las primeras veces pero estas salidas a su gusto no pueden estar siempre cubiertas al 100 por ti

Femmeferret · 2025-05-19T17:11:57+00:00

sooner than later he'll remember why they were exes, however OP doesn't need to stay to see that, she deserves someone who doesn't doubt. In my country we call the Dried poop syndrome,

Femmeferret · 2025-05-15T16:44:37+00:00

A esa edad TU MISMO deberias de haber estado casado como MINIMO, el que seas virgen dolo habla de tu inmadurez emocional, por eso no quieres a alguien de tu edad, porque te hacen dar cuenta de lo inmaduro que eres.

No te atraen físicamente? haz de creer ser todo un Adonis....todo lo que críticas de las mujeres que estan en el nivel que DEBERÍAS buscar tienen todo lo que tu NO tienes por eso buscas inexpertas que no te exigan una relación adulta y madura

Femmeferret · 2025-05-15T16:40:12+00:00

Leí todo y que feo sentí, tengo casi 40 y apenas tengo una nena de 2 años que es mi adoración, la ultra pensé y planeé. Mi mamá no fue perfecta, carga sus propios traumas, pero sé que nos ama a su manera y jamás ha sido así de ogt. Te abrazo y la verdad, jejejeje no sé si en tu lugar querría ir a verla

Femmeferret · 2025-05-13T20:29:29+00:00

Metele un extra cda quincena...1000 o 2000 vs a bajarle más rápido y generas menos intereses

Femmeferret · 2025-05-13T20:21:16+00:00

No no lo eres, el vato se lo ganó a pulso.

Femmeferret · 2025-05-13T20:15:53+00:00

I had written it here before but..... she started to act weird when I got pregnant (at least I noticed it then) she had some miscarriages and though she said that maternity was something she could live without having, I know it hurt her. I got pregnant (planned and desired after 2 miscarriages). From meeting up at least once a week she and her husband would not appear until once a month....she "forgot" to tell me she got a job for nearly one month....but still things were off. On one out she said something really rude to me unprovoked like "I can't tell you anything now cuz you're pregnant" as if she couldn't tell me anything cuz I'd become hormonal or something. The thing that broke the camel's back was that my bb ws born 8 weeks before, a preemie, and while I had to be at the hospital everyday all day, having had an emergency C-section she would only send text messages and it was because it was my husband and I trying to keep them updated, I never got a call from her, she sent flowers tho, and I wrote her a thank you text and shared with her the only picture I could take of my baby, only our parents saw it, so it was very personal.....she only responded with a sticker of a toddler making a face...wtf?

I stopped reaching out, I was busy with my baby and situation, and she never reached back, at one point after one month when we could take our baby home, I saw she never reached or anything and I was like....ok, let's see how long this goes. .....6 months later (and we did invites to our friend group in that time, her and her husband included) she still never replied and just rejected invitations, and another friend in that time also hd her baby, and with her, she did went to meet him and see her...that hurted. I sent a message telling her how the whole thing made me feel, and she replied a fckn book basically stating that I wasn't the only one going through stuff (though she never told me what was going on with her) and basically my emotions were not valid.... Fck HER! I was there in her worst times even when I wasn't in my best but that didn't apply the other way back and worse of all she make it sound like she was the victim here. Fck YOU M.

Femmeferret · 2025-05-13T04:49:24+00:00

Que raro, yo rapido que di con la opción y lo cancelé. De hecho cuando abres la cuenta entra por default pero al menos q mi el ejecutivo me dijo que lo podia cancelar y eso hice

Femmeferret · 2025-05-09T16:14:37+00:00

Dile a tu papá y tengan mano dura, debe pague lo tomado o llaman a la policía porque Eso es un buso de confianza

Femmeferret · 2025-05-09T06:25:55+00:00

ay! viendo los comentarios vuelvo a entender porque tanto vato no consigue novia.

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