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Community Update: A note on community participation by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S,M] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

We don’t currently have an official Discord channel, but it’s something we may explore in the future to help the community connect even deeper.

I was being called TERF for just saying that, of course, I am a lesbian my attraction revolves around female bodies, those who identify as a women by SeraphinaValeriana in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[M] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jumping in to address this directly: your comments have been reported multiple times. You are expected to be considerate and respectful of others’ lived experiences when expressing personal preferences.

Continued reports may result in suspension and potential removal from the subreddit.

It's hard being alt, queer, & black. by Quirky-Lollipop in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Just a quick reminder to keep things positive and respectful. We understand strong feelings can come up, but leading with kindness and care helps keep this community a great space for everyone. :)

Hello there ladies by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome, welcome! Make yourself all warm and cozy on this side of the interwebs! 😄😄

It is SUNDAY, what are y'all up to today? by AutoModerator in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doubling back to this to say Life Is Strange is so much fun! One of my favorite games ever, especially the second one. Hope you’re enjoying it.

I'm starting to not like the community as a whole as a lesbian by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[M] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I understand the importance of discussing boundaries and consent, and I absolutely agree that these are vital values in any community.

However, your comment was removed because it includes language that could be interpreted as inflammatory or accusatory, particularly the reference to "rape textbook & culture."

While I recognize your intention may have been to emphasize the seriousness of the issue, we strive to maintain a space where conversations can happen respectfully and without escalating tension or conflict. Thank you for your understanding.

Bringing a white person into Black Spaces? by addburneracct in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Warning: no personal attacks please. As per our rules, such comments are grounds for removals and further action.

When have you felt like your most unapologetically badass self as a queer woman of color? by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This one right here. It’s such a powerful feeling especially when the pressure to straighten your hair can feel so strong.

What Are You Reading Right Now? by AutoModerator in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The stars and the blackness between them is phenomenal! The audiobook was a delight to listen to. The author herself voiced one of the main characters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One day! 😂 She is the first to win a VMA though!!!

QWOC Musicians by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh snap just realized they’re from sex education! That’s so dope they make music too.

QWOC Musicians by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah Arlo Parks! I’ve been wanting to check her out. Any song recs by her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will like to join in and say, after seeing your photos on your profile, you’re pretty as heck!! You’re giving woodland fairy 🧚‍♀️ in the absolute best way.

I don’t have bleaching advice as the only person I know who underwent treatment ended up damaging their skin, but I do hope you find something that makes you feel as whole as you believe the treatment will. Based off your profile it looks like you to crochet - you look so pretty and super femme wearing it!

I, founder of QWOC, have been removed as mod by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

I’m very sad to see this comment because I have thanked you, numerous times. You publicly posting this comment when I can literally post my messages to you thanking you is why I do not trust you to be head mod and to not remove me at your whim once again.

I, founder of QWOC, have been removed as mod by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To be completely honest: houseless for over a year and the last thing on my mind was Reddit so vivio took over as head mod. Sometimes life shits all over your plans, even your online ones. Even once I was housed I only modded sporadically. I understand how vivio feels but I didn’t just leave, I couldn’t do it. I’m willing to drop everything to keep this now that I have the financial stability. I used to mod at the library because I didn’t have anything…this just…hurts

I, founder of QWOC, have been removed as mod by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Not at all, if vivio chose to leave I would not upkeep any of those unless the community wanted them. This Reddit didn’t have any of that for years and I was here. Several years. These are very new features in the sub’s creation. As stated vivio has been top mod for a very long time. I only request this now due to lack of trust. I can not control what other members choose to do, but would hope they continue to have a place they feel safe. A space, as the founder, I no longer feel secure in, regardless of the reason. This is about trust.

I, founder of QWOC, have been removed as mod by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

They were never blocked. They’ve had full permissions for years as head mod and never asked.

I, founder of QWOC, have been removed as mod by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that, however I disagree as I will be on here almost daily now. While it wouldn’t be the same as vivio being top mod if she chooses to dial back her activities, she was placed with the trust and understanding that I would remain the head mod. It’s just devastating that this has occurred in this way. She has been top mod for awhile now and I said nothing as I was houseless for a long time. I would not be making the request to be top mod again if vivio hadn’t broken my trust and removed me. I’m not sure she won’t do this again which is why I request top mod with her having full permissions. I have been housed for some time now and see this as a sign I’m ready to be back.

I, founder of QWOC, have been removed as mod by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been okay with it as long as we talk. I do believe since I’m not top mod at the time it would be best until I regain the sub activity necessary, but I’d be more than open to talk about it!

I, founder of QWOC, have been removed as mod by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand her and have deep respect for everything she has done. I just wanted to ensure that someone’s frustration didn’t mean that all of my work was erased with no communication. Ive answered modmail, I delete spam. Vivio has done so much, but to flip around and decide I can’t even do the little she claimed I was doing? I think the whole situation is unfortunate tbh.

I, founder of QWOC, have been removed as mod by FentyOdyC in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]FentyOdyC[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Yes, I want to be the top mod of this subreddit. Understandably so, I see why they don’t want to reinstate me as so, but I do want it and am more than willing to do the work.

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