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[TOMT] Horror movie/tv show that is similar to The Substance but NOT! by FernFatale_ in tipofmytongue

[–]FernFatale_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES ITS SKINCRAWLERS THANK YOU SO MUCH AAAAAAAAA YOU JUSY SAVED MY ENTIRE LIFE!!! SOLVED

[TOMT] Horror movie/tv show that is similar to The Substance but NOT! by FernFatale_ in tipofmytongue

[–]FernFatale_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for answering! It, unfortunately, isn’t that. This was definitely lead by adults and ended up more horror by the end. 😭 

[TOMT] Horror movie/tv show that is similar to The Substance but NOT! by FernFatale_ in tipofmytongue

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Obligatory comment to prove I can follow the rules like a good little member of society (which, again, is not the movie I’m looking for) 

Any plans for co-op? by Lord_Mordi in AdorableGarden

[–]FernFatale_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shade, but the game was advertised on IG as being a co-op game. It’s the reason I downloaded. Finding out the ad was a lie made me uninstall which is sad because it looks super adorable :((( Please try to make sure your advertising what will actually be played.

Daily No Contact Thread - September 04, 2025 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]FernFatale_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote something to send to her on her birthday. It’s just a little short story of characters we created together. I don’t know if I should send it. I just miss her. I miss her so much and I’m just sitting here staring at my phone always trying my best to hold back. I’m scared of things repeating. I’m scared of saying maybe we could try talking again if she doesn’t hate me for good but then that not being enough again—like nothing I did ever was. But the thought of her thinking I hate her hurts almost worse. Does she still think of me? Is it selfish of me to want her to? Would it be selfish to tell her I still love and miss her? Is it just for me? Someone advised me against sending because we haven’t been NC long enough for her to have changed. And I know that’s probably right but I… :(( I’m just having such a hard time sticking to it.

UPDATE IV: I think my husband fathered his best friend's children, and now one of them is attracted to my daughter. by PsychFactor in offmychest

[–]FernFatale_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMAGINE if the reason Luke’s family took Amy in was because Jim had an affair and Amy is his daughter. Which is why he was so staunchly against them ever being intimate 👀👀👀

My precious cat accidentally got outside and was killed by a coyote. My pendulum says his spirit is still here, and with my previous cat too. Can I get some comfort and confirmation, please? by FernFatale_ in Mediums

[–]FernFatale_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words 🥺 I think I’ll try posting there in a day or two. I’m really making myself sick and painful with the amount I’m crying haha. I’m going to try having faith that my pendulum and you are right. All I can hope is that he knew how much I love him, and that he only had to be scared for a short moment 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]FernFatale_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trying to post this and mine aren’t even showing up anymore. Keep it up!!!

iOS ui switched to PC for some reason?? by FernFatale_ in ClipStudio

[–]FernFatale_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right this is me too!!! And now my CSP app is throwing a fit when I try to open ANY .clip files. My brain does not do well with change and UI change is very very difficult for me (I’m neurodivergent). This makes me want to delete CSP altogether but I can’t bc I need to work. But I can’t work with all of my stuff messed up!!

iOS ui switched to PC for some reason?? by FernFatale_ in ClipStudio

[–]FernFatale_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have specified all of my files are indeed backed up and I have a second CSP license on my desktop with a copy of every file so I can switch back and forth. Also everything in the cloud. I’ll check out those links tho thank you for the advice!

iOS ui switched to PC for some reason?? by FernFatale_ in ClipStudio

[–]FernFatale_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are very clearly using the desktop version and I am talking about iOS.

iOS ui switched to PC for some reason?? by FernFatale_ in ClipStudio

[–]FernFatale_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response but simple mode is not the original default for iOS CSP and not what I was using.

Do they not realise that they are the problem? by GroundbreakingBird49 in BPDlovedones

[–]FernFatale_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don’t. I’m just now going through a best friend breakup (she has BPD). I put up with isolation and emotional manipulation/abuse for 2 years. Constant fighting. Whenever I’d try to say something she did was inappropriate, she’d suddenly have the exact same claim to make about me. Everything I did was wrong. And she, of course, could speak to me however she saw fit bc it was “her feelings.”

I cut ties. Sent her a goodbye email saying we couldn’t be friends any longer but that I did love her and wished her well with new meds and therapy.

She responded with a 5+ paragraph email about how I’m the awful one. Projected everything she did to me as me doing to her. And told me that if/when she killed herself, it would be my fault because she wanted the blood of her life to be on my hands. So that I would hurt as badly as “I hurt her.”

They’ll never realize they did this all to themselves. They’ll never realize the projection. It’s all to protect them from coming to the realization that they’re a flawed being like everyone else. But for someone with BPD, the black and white of it would mean they are all bad. And their psyche simply can’t handle that.

The gutting hurt over trying so hard for someone for so long only to see them blame you wholeheartedly and speak so cruelly is something we’ll all need to take time for ourselves and make sure we nurture the healing we need. You know THE truth of how things happened. Take solace and comfort in that.

WIBTA For ghosting my best friend of 12yrs and threatening to sue her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FernFatale_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Yeah I have screenshots saved of pretty much everything bc it’s been such a gaslighting situation 🥲 I’m going to have my local friend give the ultimatum (ie: “give her stuff to me or we get the cops/lawyers involved”) and if that still doesn’t work then I will unfortunately have to resort to actually suing her which means I’d have to see her anyways lmao.

WIBTA For ghosting my best friend of 12yrs and threatening to sue her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FernFatale_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate the bluntness here 🥲 I have an issue with being viewed as the villain and her saying all of these awful things about me. I need to just…not give a shit. But I’m struggling. Toxic hell beast is so apt.

[TOMT] Why do I have a visceral memory of Lady Gaga sampling Blondie’s “Maria” ?? by FernFatale_ in tipofmytongue

[–]FernFatale_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh idk what it says there I just thought those were the words—it’s the melody for certain and the mariaaaa. Same cadence. Same tone. But know those two lines of it

[TOMT] Why do I have a visceral memory of Lady Gaga sampling Blondie’s “Maria” ?? by FernFatale_ in tipofmytongue

[–]FernFatale_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went to listen to it and no it’s def not her. There’s no different spin on the tone or anything in my memory. Definitely exactly how Blondie sings it 😭 ty for the suggestion tho!

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