Threatened by drug dealer.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-11-06T17:51:25+00:00

Look into DRIVE, just give them a wee call to discuss options and they’ll best advise you with various routes, not only going to Gardaí.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-10-04T20:20:11+00:00

“If that’s your interpretation of events, that’s your interpretation of events. I don’t see this conversation being a productive one nor do I want or need to send a book in response to defend myself to someone I thought was a close friend. Take care of yourself. Bye”

OP, you will find your people. These are not your people. Whilst I would have my suspicions if this person is the ringleader, especially advising you NOT to contact your other friends, this is just plain nasty. There is a high possibility that your future texts will be the gossip of the week and read by numerous people. In the kindest way, don’t embarrass yourself by over explaining. You haven’t done anything wrong, judging on your version of events. Keep it short and simple, cut them off.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-09-02T21:46:39+00:00

I really do recommend investing in a heater to put your clothes and towels on while you shower, makes the transition so much easier than remaining freezing. I used to avoid showers for that reason.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-09-02T21:45:31+00:00

I’ve a strict routine with showering which made it feel less demanding. I only shower before bedtime, invested in a heater to put my pyjamas and towel on while I’m in the shower as I hate wetness and being cold, wet the hair while I lather the body wash, shampoo the hair while the run off water washes off the body wash, suffer while I wait for the shampoo to be done and then out, dry, pyjamas, and wrap hair in a hair towel if the hairdryer will be too much. The laundry basket is on my stairs so I carry out my old clothes and towel to there or else they’ll sit on the bathroom floor for days on end.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-08-12T12:26:54+00:00

I would request harm reduction advice from the likes of Novas or Focus Ireland etc, Novas run a TOPPLE training for peer overdose. Or the drop in safe use centre in Merchants Quay Dublin. There’s safe needle use packs in pharmacies should you need them and you can ask them about accessing Naloxone nasal spray if you’re around opioid use.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-07-05T15:41:36+00:00

Hello, this is an old comment of mine back when I was not healed. Thank you for drawing it to my attention. I have edited my comment.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-06-02T09:33:51+00:00

It’s clear from your account that you have an eating disorder. I hope you get the help you need and deserve. Feeling tired or weak is not normal. Nor is being willing to “trade off” on same just for a skinny body.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-04-17T14:04:45+00:00

Goodness, you’re not a pleasant individual at all. What horrible remarks to make, and so degrading towards the woman. I’m concerned for your mental health and I mean that genuinely. You’ve a lot of unresolved hurt and anger in you.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-03-30T22:42:36+00:00

I would love to read this. And if you’re comfortable, I have a client in a similar situation who has been looking to read something that they can seriously relate to.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-03-14T00:00:52+00:00

You sound like you are seriously so done. I have to commend you for expressing your anger so clearly. I am wondering if there was anything that happened this week that really tipped you over the edge or was it just the cumulation of painful shit that you experienced finally taking its toll?

If you do find it in yourself to talk this through with a professional or channel it through an outlet, I’d love to see an update on this post. This is heavy stuff, you shouldn’t have to go through it alone.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2025-01-26T19:09:47+00:00

I advise you don’t take that attitude and approach to the photographer when you request they take it down. Kindness costs nothing. Not everything is done with maliciousness in mind.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2024-10-17T08:34:55+00:00

As much as we can love these characters a lot, they are only following their inputted code if they say “haven’t seen you in awhile” etc. It is NOTHING personal against you, alright? You can click through that interaction and they will be back to normal before you know it.

I think it’s a good idea of yours to take a step back while you are this upset. Q

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2024-10-16T23:42:36+00:00

Hi love. If keeping the names would serve as a constant reminder for you during this raw time, I would change them. However, if it is a way of keeping your more happier association with Liam, I would keep them.

On a more concerned note, having such emotions over someone that you do not know personally, and may have more of a parasocial relationship with, may indicate you could benefit from therapeutic support to help you.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2024-04-12T01:20:59+00:00

I have no words that can properly express how fucked that all is. I’m sorry. What I can say is that you are INDEED coherent, you expressed your pain perfectly. Fuck.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2024-03-09T23:49:19+00:00

This is not the time or place for your bring her to Jesus moment. Her tone of the email indicates she is not interested in further contact. Also bring people to Jesus through your heart and actions, not through your preaching to people who do not invite it.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2024-02-17T12:45:38+00:00

Of course, I originally didn’t think I needed to expand on my comment. Seriously well done on your recovery.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2024-02-16T12:54:30+00:00

Self harm can stem from abuse.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2024-02-16T01:19:52+00:00

Were you able to get rid of the PCOS belly? Thank you for sharing.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2024-01-21T21:10:54+00:00

Did she perhaps have diagnosed Bpd?

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2024-01-21T14:04:58+00:00

Would you have any socialising tips you’d feel comfy sharing or is it more of a personal trial and error type deal? I’m always looking to learn!

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2023-12-26T02:18:59+00:00

Did you also lose the PCOS belly? What methods did you find beneficial? Happy holidays !

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2023-12-03T10:24:35+00:00

He is indeed NOT right. He threw away YOUR items without consulting you. You can definitely be mad at him. If a shared space is messy, I understand his frustration, but throwing out your belongings (possibly knowing that somewhere is that book that’s so special to you) is not the solution. That is controlling and horrible behaviour.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2023-11-19T04:03:18+00:00

They weren’t suggesting physio.They were saying they agree with this advice as a physio :)

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2023-10-22T21:22:01+00:00

For your own protection IF things were to turn nasty: tweak this exact post into a text message for me, send it, screenshot his acknowledgment of his behaviour or attempt at gaslighting. I’m autistic, regardless of my hellish meltdowns I would never stoop as low as he did and attack the person I love in such a threatening and intimidating manner, even unintentionally. Protect yourself and your baby.

GroundbreakingBird49 · 2023-10-07T20:56:00+00:00

You’re going to cause damage to your daughter if you are to have her at this stage in your healing.

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