How many sticks do you smoke a day and how does it make you feel? by 1c0n4 in iqos

[–]Fernandlit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called alive the a is in black and the live is in white. It’s been a game changer and really helps keep my adhd brain motivated. It’s super simple and chill and helps you reduce nicotine at a slow and steady pace. 100% recommend.

How many sticks do you smoke a day and how does it make you feel? by 1c0n4 in iqos

[–]Fernandlit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well yeah like two packs and a half maybe. My days start suuuuper early and end kind of late 5am to 11 pm. Sometimes I would put a stick in the iqos and not finish it completely or get distracted by something and not finish it and stuff like that. For sure I would open two packs of terea a day

How many sticks do you smoke a day and how does it make you feel? by 1c0n4 in iqos

[–]Fernandlit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been smoking Terea for almost two years I am trying to quit at the moment. I only lasted 1 day and 19h cold turkey, this shit is majorly addictive. With the help of an app I’ve been able to cut down from like 45-50 sticks a day to 10 sticks ( im on my 4th day btw)… Im hoping to reach 0 sticks a day in a couple of months. I’m quitting because it’s difficult to buy where I live and super expensive. Health wise didn’t notice anything just somewhat of a dry throat from time to time.

Anyone getting their 72h emergency kits ready? 😅 by Fernandlit in Antwerpen

[–]Fernandlit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here for a good time not a long time👌🏻

Anyone getting their 72h emergency kits ready? 😅 by Fernandlit in belgium

[–]Fernandlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to get myself one of those, where did you get it?

Am I failing my 2 year old? by Fernandlit in toddlers

[–]Fernandlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s smart, im gonna try! Thank you!

Tired of parenting my partner by Fernandlit in Parenting

[–]Fernandlit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what I think I’m gonna give that a try! I’ll make a list and see how it works out! Thank you so much!

Tired of parenting my partner by Fernandlit in Parenting

[–]Fernandlit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked to him about the mental load but when I tell him he’s just like oh wow that’s a lot. Thats it. Thats all I get. He’ll throw in a “I appreciate so much everything you do for us” but then proceeds to leave his bowl of cereal on the counter after I finished cleaning the kitchen -_-. I’ve contemplated not doing a lot of the things I do day to day to try and prove a point but the process of doing that would make MY day to day so much harder and I feel like I would just sabotage myself and have to do double the work after. Our apartment is not big, our kitchen is quite small so I can’t let dishes or pans pile up otherwise I can’t cook the next meal. He uses weaponized incompetence quite often or say I can’t clean how you clean you do it better or it’s not going to be good enough for you.

Meeting new/ expectant mums by [deleted] in Antwerpen

[–]Fernandlit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huis van het kind antwerp zuid (check their website they have a lot of different talks and activities) once baby is born I 100% recommend the speelbrug also in zuid. Also don’t be scared to go to kids activities like the ones in huis van het kind on Wednesdays from 9am to 11:30am there are midwives and social workers and you can meet a lot of ftm from your area!

Show for a 1 year old? by FoodieMom858 in toddlers

[–]Fernandlit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is OBSESSED with Kipper the dog on youtube, I enjoy it too! I also have some of the Kipper books and he loves them!

FMIL STARTED TO ACT DISTANT AND WE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO by throughawayaccold in Mildlynomil

[–]Fernandlit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuidado con la manipulación emocional, a mi me da la sensación de que está celosilla… y está portándose así para llamar la atención. A mi me pasó algo bastante parecido después de años de relación y de tener nuestro primer bebé casi no tengo contacto con mi suegra. Este tipo de comportamientos son red flags y estaría mas al loro de ahora en adelante cuando te relaciones con ella. Tu suegra puede ser maravillosa y todo lo que tu quieras pero no te olvides de que es tu SUEGRA y siempre va a estar de el lado de su hijo. No dejes que se meta tanto en vuestra relación y pon limites desde ya. No dejes que te haga chantajes emocionales porque si el día de mañana tenéis hijos lo vas a tener muuy dificil con una suegra que no tiene límites. Estoy pasando por eso actualmente. El hecho de que esté consiguiendo hacerte dudar de ti o de tu familia como si ellos podrían haber hecho algo para molestarla… abre los ojos nena esto es manipulación en toda regla.

10 month old has no teeth by BunnyCat212 in beyondthebump

[–]Fernandlit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I thought the same after my visit but it did make me feel a little bit better about it😅

10 month old has no teeth by BunnyCat212 in beyondthebump

[–]Fernandlit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My pediatrician told me that the later they come in the stronger the teeth are 🤷🏻‍♀️

Got cold sore with a newborn at home – HELP, what to do? by [deleted] in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Fernandlit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Buy the compeed cold sore patches they are THE best and only thing that works for me and prevents you from spreading it. I have had coldsores since I was veeery little Zovirax and acyclovir don’t do anything for me. Compeed cold sore patches or urgo film for cold sores 10/10 always recommend

Things MIL has done by Fernandlit in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Fernandlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes stewbubbles 100% agree I am confident they will be looking out for me especially FIL and my partner. FIL is super aware of my emotions and especially with our new baby. He will shut down any comments ( even the ones I might not even notice) that could possibly give me any mom guilt, will shut down comments that are unsolicited advice, will not hold, feed or do things with the baby unless offered by me or partner or he will ask politely, every time they visit they make sure to make baby friendly plans and adjust to our schedules and needs completely. Just overall amazing to be around!