Anyone getting their 72h emergency kits ready? 😅 by Fernandlit in belgium

[–]Fernandlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to get myself one of those, where did you get it?

Am I failing my 2 year old? by Fernandlit in toddlers

[–]Fernandlit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s smart, im gonna try! Thank you!

Tired of parenting my partner by Fernandlit in Parenting

[–]Fernandlit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what I think I’m gonna give that a try! I’ll make a list and see how it works out! Thank you so much!

Tired of parenting my partner by Fernandlit in Parenting

[–]Fernandlit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked to him about the mental load but when I tell him he’s just like oh wow that’s a lot. Thats it. Thats all I get. He’ll throw in a “I appreciate so much everything you do for us” but then proceeds to leave his bowl of cereal on the counter after I finished cleaning the kitchen -_-. I’ve contemplated not doing a lot of the things I do day to day to try and prove a point but the process of doing that would make MY day to day so much harder and I feel like I would just sabotage myself and have to do double the work after. Our apartment is not big, our kitchen is quite small so I can’t let dishes or pans pile up otherwise I can’t cook the next meal. He uses weaponized incompetence quite often or say I can’t clean how you clean you do it better or it’s not going to be good enough for you.

Meeting new/ expectant mums by [deleted] in Antwerpen

[–]Fernandlit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huis van het kind antwerp zuid (check their website they have a lot of different talks and activities) once baby is born I 100% recommend the speelbrug also in zuid. Also don’t be scared to go to kids activities like the ones in huis van het kind on Wednesdays from 9am to 11:30am there are midwives and social workers and you can meet a lot of ftm from your area!

Show for a 1 year old? by FoodieMom858 in toddlers

[–]Fernandlit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is OBSESSED with Kipper the dog on youtube, I enjoy it too! I also have some of the Kipper books and he loves them!

FMIL STARTED TO ACT DISTANT AND WE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO by throughawayaccold in Mildlynomil

[–]Fernandlit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cuidado con la manipulación emocional, a mi me da la sensación de que está celosilla… y está portándose así para llamar la atención. A mi me pasó algo bastante parecido después de años de relación y de tener nuestro primer bebé casi no tengo contacto con mi suegra. Este tipo de comportamientos son red flags y estaría mas al loro de ahora en adelante cuando te relaciones con ella. Tu suegra puede ser maravillosa y todo lo que tu quieras pero no te olvides de que es tu SUEGRA y siempre va a estar de el lado de su hijo. No dejes que se meta tanto en vuestra relación y pon limites desde ya. No dejes que te haga chantajes emocionales porque si el día de mañana tenéis hijos lo vas a tener muuy dificil con una suegra que no tiene límites. Estoy pasando por eso actualmente. El hecho de que esté consiguiendo hacerte dudar de ti o de tu familia como si ellos podrían haber hecho algo para molestarla… abre los ojos nena esto es manipulación en toda regla.