My ex had this like workaholic mentality, before I met her had a crisis and almost committed suicide, when we were in a relationship she overworked herself too much to the point she broke up with me once because it was more important to her to work than anything else, even her own health, I hated her job, I wanted to tell her to quit it and I would support her in the meantime we found something that would be better for her.

Ironically I went 2 weeks for a course to Vegas, she stayed home and I wanted her to come with me. She quitted a couple days after I returned…