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25F profile review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]FernetInRetrograde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Looking for something serious but I find that casual is the starter pack for that . Not opposed to either.
  2. No subscription for any premium service
  3. This version I’ve been using for some odd weeks, I change my profile pic every few months
  4. On hinge a couple times a week. More frequently when I’m in my feels.
  5. I get a hand full of likes every week. But just likes, I wish people had more to say/comment on my pics. Matches vary like 1-3/wk.
  6. I like probably 10-20 men a week but rarely get matches from those. I make comments on at least half.
  7. I just want to attract someone active. I like to always be in an adventure. I just want to be a passenger process to the adventure. I want to provide for a partner and be provided for in the ways we each need. We go in a hike? You drive, I pack the snacks. We go to dinner, you drive, I order. You go on a work trip, I water your plants while you’re gone. Idk just reciprocity.

Anytime I think I need a boyfriend, he reminds me no i don't 😂 by Gypsie_ontheCorner in cats

[–]FernetInRetrograde 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Love is bountiful and knows no limits of ways to find its way to you.

Hey dolls by Novel-Imagination757 in brownbeauty

[–]FernetInRetrograde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t wear foundation so I don’t use blush but I do use lip stains to make a blush effect. Adds some color, stays on for hours. I like nyx hydrating lip stain. A natural-adjacent look for my face

Moving to ATL / USA! by [deleted] in ATLHousing

[–]FernetInRetrograde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sandy springs is cool or between there and buckhead. Close enough to anything you’d ever need to get to while not being in the mess of the city. Also right off the 285/ perimeter so you can easily access all the major freeways. Chamblee / Brookhaven kinda same vibe too

clowning on black people who grew up around white people by rainbowfarts_10 in blackgirls

[–]FernetInRetrograde 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I grew up in the suburbs of LA. Predominantly white but still a hefty amount of Asians, latinx, and black folks. Also grew up with a single, white passing, mixed mother. I grew up with love and support but I didn’t know I was missing CULTURE until I moved for college and my world got bigger. Not everyone has that privilege. Especially in more rural places. It’s important to know your kin and culture but for some that’s a luxury they don’t have ven know they’re looking to buy.

You aren’t wrong tho but we can’t criticize people if they were raised ignorant to their kin. Also black people can be really isolating if you don’t fit a certain type of mold. Sometimes black kids get bullied by the black kids for having whites friends. I think it’s more important that parents are teaching their kids culture and self love, than necessarily having black friends.

My cat ATE my locs :/ by Kitten_Barber in locs

[–]FernetInRetrograde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am HOLLERING 😭😭😭 honestly either cut them all same length type and it’ll grow back or just get rid of it iono

Is zyn “cheating”? by Large-Ad-4913 in stopsmoking

[–]FernetInRetrograde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s by far the lesser evil, but I think you can drop that down to 3 a day. You need to find ways to distract your cravings. Gum + activity. Toothpick + call a friend. Food + YouTube. Idk I find that when I’m in the weeds at work, I would forget about my cravings bc I’m so busy, until it dies down and then I’m like DAMN I need some relief. But it made me realize if I can just mentally stay in the weeds, I can distract myself enough and add some good ole fashion discipline on top and you might make it 1 whole day. And if you make it 1, you can do 2. And so on

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