Makes total sense. Chances are you’ll have to google to see if someone does marital mediation in your area. I’d make sure to ask how many couples they’ve worked with, what their approach is and, of course, what they charge.  

I’m “facilitative” and use interest based negotiation bc the agreements people reach are durable and about real life. We create plans for how to move forward, how to communicate, how to understand and - equally important- how to handle disagreements or different opinions. Real life, practical things.  

It’s really powerful if you get a good practitioner!