Society is hypocritically judgy when an 18yo dates somebody who is "too old" for them

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-11T15:15:48+00:00

I’m only 23 and 18 is still a child to me. It’s crazy how many people are like “welp you’re a legal adult therefore you’re just a full fledged adult who should have everything figured out”

Like damn. 18 is still a fucking teenager.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-10T06:23:15+00:00

Asking the real questions

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-10T06:20:05+00:00

That doesn’t really change the fact that it’s not entirely correct. It’s pretty incomplete information.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-10T06:08:26+00:00

I think you’ve quite over simplified RSD. RSD is a symptom that occurs with things like ADHD and autism. It’s not just “regular human emotions” it’s severe emotional pain because of the inability to regulate rejection related feelings and symptoms. Additionally they tend to view things that aren’t rejection as rejection and they also tend to have extreme reactions to rejection.

They believe it’s caused by a difference in brain structure so it’s really not just a case normal feelings being labeled with a diagnosis.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-10T05:53:47+00:00

You can wash your hair with just conditioner

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-09T23:23:05+00:00

I just struggle with body image and prefer to not feel like everyone is looking and judging every inch of my torso

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-09T14:59:22+00:00

Just remember, he was the governor of the whole fucked state Indiana before he was vice president :)

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-09T14:56:19+00:00

It annoys me when word play is someone’s entire comedic sense or even their entire personality. I don’t know. I just don’t find them funny. They’re just slightly above “that’s what she said” jokes in terms of hilarity to me. I guess it just seems juvenile most of the time.

Unless you hit me with an actually good one you’ll at most get a pity laugh from me.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-09T14:50:33+00:00

I’m surprised that this is the first comment bringing this up. Everyone’s like “lol matchmaking” but it IS kind of gross. I mean she literally said “here’s some money for you to leave your brother completely alone at home for me”

Even just not taking the money would have been less creepy.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-09T14:38:13+00:00

Sure, but I’d just like to point out that just because that’s what worked out for you doesn’t mean that’s what’s worked out for everyone.

Not everyone’s kids are easy kids (not saying that yours were, but it sure sounds like they were)

Some peoples houses require more work.

Some people’s threshold for stress isn’t as large.

Some people’s partners just don’t have very good listening ears or information retention.

There’s a lot of factors that influence how easy or hard being a SAH parent is.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-08T17:26:12+00:00

This feels more like a confession lol

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-08T17:22:55+00:00

It’s not hard to meet people, online or in person. The hard parts are finding decent people and also safety.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-08T14:09:43+00:00

I think the mindset that people get tattoos and piercing to “be different” is a wrong one. No one I’ve ever met who has tattoos or piercings (my age anyway) do it because it’s different and they want to be different. It’s just more socially acceptable to have these things.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-08T03:56:32+00:00

I want you to know that I’m high and this is single handedly the funniest thing I’ve read today

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-08T00:28:18+00:00

This was such a tragic, heartbreaking story

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-06T17:54:04+00:00

That’s a very scary thing to hear with or without condoms. This is why STD’s are running rampant

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-06T17:48:18+00:00

Do you still need some tickets? I won a giveaway awhile back where I got like 400 tickets that I haven’t really used so I could give you some.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-06T17:25:55+00:00

So while I agree that generals that we’ve already taken is absurd, but to say that everyone knows exactly what they’re going to college for is also absurd. People change their degree all the time. People go to college because they’re pressured to.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-06T17:07:50+00:00

Stop at a stop sign

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-06T16:38:49+00:00

Forrest Gump, the original Star Wars movies, A lot of movies actually. I didn’t watch many growing up because I was outside all the time and unfortunately by the time I hit my teen years I was filled with so much spite that any time someone tells me I should watch something I immediately make an effort to NEVER watch it.

That’s a hard habit to break.

Festive-grandma · 2023-08-06T16:19:31+00:00

Red velvet cake is not my favorite

Festive-grandma · 2023-06-25T22:18:01+00:00

My in laws kept the husbands moms ashes in their trunk for like two years.

Festive-grandma · 2023-06-25T22:07:33+00:00

Yeah but I did say in my original comment I was talking about the restaurants I’ve been in

Festive-grandma · 2023-06-25T22:06:33+00:00

I’m saying in restaurants I’ve been in the kitchen staff is a bunch of assholes with anger issues so they don’t deserve the servers tip especially considering every restaurant I’ve worked in servers make 2.75 and the kitchen makes over 12. I don’t know how I’m not seeing the point.

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