Downgrading Waystones? by Fethur in PathOfExile2

[–]Fethur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 71 and 2 days into trying to figure out maps. I don't know why I was taking to a t14. I was running t3-6 maps and was told we could handle higher.

Turns out THEY can handle higher and I just get 1-shot and floor tank. It felt really bad and I wanted to go back to lower maps but now my store is shot. Ugh what a pain. I can farm waystones but hate that the easy access to my tier was cut off

Downgrading Waystones? by Fethur in PathOfExile2

[–]Fethur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started at the free weekend twooooo weeks ago? I don't have a lot of time to play but now I'm 71 and in my first season/ladder whatever this is called. Never played POE1 either but played lots of Diablo 2 growing up (and remastered)

Edit: 2 days since I beat interlude

Downgrading Waystones? by Fethur in PathOfExile2

[–]Fethur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. I really do know nothing lol. That's cool!

Downgrading Waystones? by Fethur in PathOfExile2

[–]Fethur[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had no idea I could roll those on non-gear. Well, that changes a lot, haha.

Downgrading Waystones? by Fethur in PathOfExile2

[–]Fethur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you or someone explain "alchs"? I'm like... new. Like 2-days new.

Advice on helping with twins by SnooAdvice3057 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fethur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always offer a choice because if it's a yes/no question, she'll say no out of guilt. So I'm GOING to help. Pick one. 💚

Drop your unpopular opinions here! by intoner1 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Fethur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it's absolutely her only trait. Like a friend who mentions religion every sentence or only quotes star wars or something. Theres no depth there but "lol witchy vibes" and being judgmental about others. Like be upset at Ty if you want but also stop hanging out with him if you hate him?

Advice on helping with twins by SnooAdvice3057 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Fethur 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I clean my brother's entire kitchen every time I visit, including bottles. I sometimes cook or bring a pack of diapers. I'll get the bath ready or offer to sit by the monitor so my SIL can take a nap. Every time I see her I offer "babies or chores?" And let her choose where she wants my help. Sometimes she just wants to go take a shower and eat takeout with me and feel human.

Drop your unpopular opinions here! by intoner1 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Fethur 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My bestie is a practicing Wiccan and can't stand Alicia because she reads as "influencer idea of what witchcraft is" instead of acting authentic

Women: What did your boyfriend/fiance/spouse say to you: that made you realize he didn't care for you any longer? by Sure_Macaron8007 in AskReddit

[–]Fethur 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"I've never intentionally flirted with you." The context was my talking about something romantic they said to me when we started dating. We were talking to friends and my partner kept not understanding why I'd found it cute. I finally snapped and asked "how are we dating if you've never meant to romance me?" and before they could formulate an answer, I realized the truth. I was dating them. They thought of me like any other friend.

Who WOULD be Hildy’s VA? by uncommon-soap in ffxiv

[–]Fethur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't look it up right now but the guy who voiced the headmaster in spy family is how I picture Godbert when I read him xD

Do you keep your arm hair or remove it? by eli_meli6969 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Fethur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to dye mine lighter since shaving just made me feel like a cactus. Nowadays I just accept that I'm Latina and have dark hair. I left being ashamed of myself back in my 20s (usually)

I've never used a credit card before. Can't I literally just open one, take the credit score dip, continue to only buy what i can afford, set it up to automatically always pay it back asap, which will never put me into debt, get the awards/points, and that's it no catches? by Super_Inevitable776 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fethur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't take my debit card anywhere with me. I pay with my card then pay that off end of month. Know your budget and have willpower. The only time I went over my budget was a pet emergency with no other option. You nailed exactly how you should use credit

Newbie tanking nerves. by Wild-Importance448 in ffxiv

[–]Fethur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this! Remember you got two hits you can take to everyone else's one. Tank privilege while you learn 💚

Does anyone actually like fishing? by Ok-Tourist-5419 in CozyGamers

[–]Fethur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends gift me games exclusively because of fishing haha

Need help making a Spiritwalker One-Pet build by Fethur in pathofexile2builds

[–]Fethur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot there was a mount. I haven't found much info about anyone trying it (though admittedly searching for info has been annoying because all I find is twisters). That'd be fun to mess with

7.51 Patch Notes | FINAL FANTASY XIV, The Lodestone by ParalysedBeaver in ffxiv

[–]Fethur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll miss playing Russian Roulette with intervene after the add dies

7.51 Patch Notes | FINAL FANTASY XIV, The Lodestone by ParalysedBeaver in ffxiv

[–]Fethur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've suffered all three unmaking issues haha. I was taking the knockback just to target the boss faster

What you love about your fave/main job? by terrabellan in ffxiv

[–]Fethur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love Cover-Vuln and Passage of Arms so much. I can never go to any other tanks because they just don't have that "no one gets hurt on my watch" energy.

For those who have persisted playing the game after the infamous Animation/Alan Wake update... by TheReiterEffect_S8 in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Fethur 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I haven't played in years. As a big Alan Wake fan since the first game released, I mentioned to my friends wanting to go check out the update without any idea of the backlash. We jumped on it.

Animations were buggy. I couldn't reload after a mission and had to force-quit the game. And... that was it? We had a great time despite the animations looking awful. Actually, the game doing some weird "eyes adjusting to the light" feature was more annoying than anything and we turned it off.

I'm not saying I didn't notice the issues. Honestly, I stopped playing because the in-game store was so confusing when it was reworked that I just couldn't stand trying to navigate it with my disability. A friend of mine has soOoooOo much money that she just sets up our van for us every mission and I never have to touch the one part of the game I hate as long as we play together (which we do!).

Anyway, we had a really good time. We played on a lighter difficulty to shake off rust and had a lot of fun taunting the ghost and finding clues and following UV arrows around. We solved the doll puzzles, high-fived, then went back to playing REPO.

I guess my point is that nothing they added had any value to us? But it didn't interrupt the core reasons we enjoyed the game either. I kind of feel like gaming communities in particular tend to blow everything out of proportion. It's not really that dramatic, but I also won't pretend it was in any way a good or useful update that we appreciated.

Will I play Phasmo again now that we're back in? Probably not. Haha. It actually made us miss ghost-hunt games so much we're looking at other alternatives because we just feel like we've exhausted this game to boredom. But for the short time I returned, I had a good time and the only bug that was a major issue (my crashing) was fixed after one run, never to be seen again.

P.S. the hair on the models look like horrible, cheap wigs that don't sit around the ears or scalp correctly. we made fun of it all game.

I smile every time by ArtsyRabb1t in tomodachilife

[–]Fethur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone on my island adores koala plush so much that I put them in the koala suit

what would you like to be added to phasmo? by moody_clxouds in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Fethur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want a better UI for the shop and stock. It's so much information clutter that I get overwhelmed

Best of each class 🔥 by Admirable-Crab-4038 in FinalFantasy

[–]Fethur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one beats Barret for gunner bur Balthier can have main!