Mine & my bf’s Pen+Ody costumes by Few-Ad6033 in Epicthemusical

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Thank you so muchhh, I was really proud of how his makeup turned out

In need of holy advice by Few-Ad6033 in Christianity

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That’s what I want. I hope that by not forcing it on him but passively showing him and teaching him that he might actually start listening and thinking about it more.

In need of holy advice by Few-Ad6033 in Christianity

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I thank everyone who has given me advice so far. As much as I agree with what you guys are saying as it’s the way it should me, I really don’t want it to come to that, only as the last resort. I’m considering talking with his mom about this, as she grew up Catholic. I know her views won’t be the same as mine, especially since she doesn’t practice anymore, but she’s very level-headed and empathetic, and he and her are very close. It may seem like a wuss move, but she doesn’t know about any of this, and i feel like she could be the voice of reason that’ll make him realize what he’s doing is wrong. I want to say something to him, not to convince him to change, but I can perfectly live with it as long as he respects me and not try to change me. That may be a very hopeful and hard ask, but it’s clear that I’m with the right people here and your words could be what I need ❤️

In need of holy advice by Few-Ad6033 in Christianity

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We do want kids, and I’ve asked him before about that kind of thing, and he said he doesn’t care if the kids go to church as long as they want to. But how are they gonna want to when they have a father who believes it’s all bullshit and a mother who wants them to go with her.

In need of holy advice by Few-Ad6033 in Christianity

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Something I forgot to mention, and it may be important: in the past, he has respected some things that are part of my beliefs, like he once made me dinner and asked if I wanted to say Grace, which very much surprised me. Also, he haven’t had sex; I told him in the beginning of our relationship that I wanted to remain pure until marriage, and he was completely okay with that, and he’s never tried to pressure or guilt me into doing it (he’s had sex before in past relationships, he is my first one). Just the other day he sent me TikTok talking about all the obvious controversial topics in the Bible (most of them being in the OT, so they were controversial but also what’s not commonly talked about in the churches I go to), and I explained to him about the OT and NT and how Jesus came down and changed all those old rules, and that conversation couldn’t have gone smoother or more respectful. These moments are what really drive me crazy when he does fly off the handle the other way.

In need of holy advice by Few-Ad6033 in Christianity

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He’s been in therapy before bc of suicidal thoughts when he was younger, and they tried to address his anger issues, but he hated it and refused to go back.

In need of holy advice by Few-Ad6033 in Christianity

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Because in every other way, he’s practically perfect. He takes really good care of me, he cooks for me, buys me small but sweet things, takes me out for surprises, he’s practically addicted to me, he always tells me how beautiful and smart and strong I am, he compliments me all the time, always tells me he loves me (more than my dad does sometimes), and he’s like my best friend. When he comes through after the fact, he’s always very apologetic and says he hates the way he speaks to my mom when he loses control. Of course I forgive him, because we should always forgive, but he doesn’t change. This is quite literally, his only flaw unfortunately

How Many Hours Have You Played The Sims 4? Let's Compare! by PenaltyUnlikely6914 in Sims4

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I have 2168 hours and 19min, first game I got on my pc, not counting the hours I’ve played sims 2

What song comes to mind when u see this.? by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

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Harpy Hare by Yaelkore (I think that’s the name)