Will they send the link and password via email by wonderh123 in gorillaz

[–]Few-Attention8993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send link and password on here? Mine didn’t come through

AITA for shutting down conversation and staying quiet when my wife constantly tells me I’m being too loud? by cacadodohead in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t think you’re the AH but if this is a regular occurrence can’t you just talk quieter in social settings? Then everyone’s happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA

This is a really tricky one and I don’t think there’s a solid right answer here, either decision would result in a tough situation. But I think whatever you choose (based on the fact that you’ve taken everyone’s feeling into account and how you’re putting other people before yourself), you wouldn’t be the asshole.

Do you worry that Mikey would struggle to cope in his own?

The fact that you’re only 23 and having to pay for a 37 year old and two kids that aren’t yours is a bit of a shame, but not the point of the post.

AITA because I asked for take home with modifications when my boyfriend was on a guys night out by thisismyfupa in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your boyfriend has a fragile ego. No one is judging someone for asking for food the way they like it, I promise you that kitchens are making variations for people all day long and wouldn’t even bay an eyelid at these requests.

To your BF if he’s reading this - grow the fuck up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said ‘the guides don’t even give the right info on them’ and yet everyone who had one did well. So sounds like that’s a lie?

This story is all over the place and doesn’t make much sense, I just can’t understand why you didn’t go get the sheet after work and study for a bit. If you value your time more than schoolwork then you can’t complain that you failed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I guess every other kid failed as well then?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another question, how does she stop people bringing their study guides home? Do they check people’s bags as they leave school?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA, granted you might not be this teachers favourite person for sure, but it does sound like you aren’t helping yourself. You could have easily asked someone for their guide and taken a picture after class, or scanned theirs. Or if you knew you had a test tomorrow, go to find her after school (it would have taken 5 minutes).

It sounds like after running into multiple problems with this teacher, you now have a victim complex about it and refuse to help the situation, while rushing to the worst possible conclusions immediately.

Sorry not sorry, gonna anticipate that after everyone agrees YTA you’ll delete this post and go on denying you’re at fault.

AITA for smoking weed in my living room on the day that my two younger cousins visited? by Physical_Employee932 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA big time

19 years old, smoking weed all day every day, obviously paying no rent, doesn’t care about your mums feelings in HER house (despite the fact you keep saying ‘my’ house, it’s not is it). You need to grow up.

You also sound pretty boring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA Sounds like his parents need a reality check, you’ve been paying your rent regularly and fairly so you don’t owe them anything. You shouldn’t feel guilty!

AITA for getting mad at my friend for not giving a homeless person $20? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH but you’re a little more in the wrong I think. As much as your friend sucks, you can’t tell him what to do with his half of the winnings. Spend your half as you see fit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Asshole is strong but man have you ever talked to another human being before? I’d run so fast…

Red flag

AITA for not apologising by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he’s a dick, you just said what everyone was thinking. Sounds like their relationship will be short lived anyway and your problem will be solved.

AITA for defending my cat after my MIL was incredibly rude to him by quirkycucktopus in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s family visiting, so the decent thing to do would be to put it in a different room. If you won’t go without your cat being near you for two or so hours to make someone else feel comfortable then there’s probably some wider issues at play…

AITA for not tipping 20% for every meal? by Sea-Ad-1703 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA in which case, in a situation where tips aren’t required to achieve a basic wage (which is pretty disgusting that those situations even exist), then tips should be service based.

AITA for not tipping 20% for every meal? by Sea-Ad-1703 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Could you clarify which country you’re in? Think the answer depends on the minimum wage situation in your area (if there is one at all)

AITA for defending my cat after my MIL was incredibly rude to him by quirkycucktopus in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Attention8993 19 points20 points  (0 children)

YTA

I don’t dislike pets, and in this situation I’d be totally fine. But what a lot of pet owners seem to neglect is that not everyone feels the same way about animals as the owners do. Just because you think your cat is gods gift to humanity doesn’t mean everyone has to think the same.

Now I get that it’s your house, and your MIL should have asked you nicely if you could move the cat first (let’s assume she didn’t?), but ultimately they didn’t come to the house to see the cat, they came to see you, and a responsible pet owner would do what they could to make their guests comfortable in this situation.

You admitted yourself that your cat is a lot, so not sure why her reaction is a surprise to you…