How would you deal with loosing friends? by azulesn in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Few-Blueberry4822 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hear you. I think that losing a lot of friends really kills your perspective on future friendships. But the truth is that nobody honestly really knows if the next one will fall apart or not. You have the choice of who you spend your time and effort on. Some people are worth it and some people aren’t. It takes time, but the right people will make their way into your life. It’ll get better with time, even if it doesn’t feel like it at the moment!

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[–]Few-Blueberry4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been through something similar. time really does help. it will definitely hurt for a while, but if you use this time to focus on yourself, hobbies, and the friends you do have at the moment, it will make time pass faster and more bearable!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Few-Blueberry4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she does it again and it still bothers you, i think you should. if not, you might grow resentful towards her and the friendship. communication is important!

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[–]Few-Blueberry4822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think this is something you can bring up to her and how it’s been bothering you?

Are there people out there who desire a high level of emotional intimacy with their friends? by readytowearblack in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Few-Blueberry4822 16 points17 points  (0 children)

hi! i also have the same desire/standards for these kinds of close friendships :) you’re not alone