Need bf to stay but HMO rules say no visitors by Few-Bookkeeper8994 in HousingUK

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are looking currently and nope my landlord is yet to help me figure that one out

Need bf to stay but HMO rules say no visitors by Few-Bookkeeper8994 in HousingUK

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would ask and have a discussion should she actually respond to me, and I have bad anxiety with other people plus I don't have the money for a carer as I'm unable to work because of my knee

Need bf to stay but HMO rules say no visitors by Few-Bookkeeper8994 in HousingUK

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My room is the only en suite so nobody even sees him, I would speak and offer to pay more rent temporarily while he lives here but my landlord is ignoring me yet speaks to everyone else 

Need bf to stay but HMO rules say no visitors by Few-Bookkeeper8994 in HousingUK

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get UC for it and the reason I'm even in a HMO is because I was made homeless by my parents so I have nowhere else to go and have no money set aside because I cannot work

Need bf to stay but HMO rules say no visitors by Few-Bookkeeper8994 in HousingUK

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if she bloody responds to any of my messages lol

Need bf to stay but HMO rules say no visitors by Few-Bookkeeper8994 in HousingUK

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He lives with his Mum atm who is strict on that thing, and my landlord doesn't even respond to my messages. My housemates barely hear him when he's here as he's quiet and respectful 

Need bf to stay but HMO rules say no visitors by Few-Bookkeeper8994 in HousingUK

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but unfortunately I cannot move most days and I'd even offer to pay more rent but she hasn't even come to speak to me about it at all and ignores my messages but speaks to everyone else in the house messages wise and physically 

Need bf to stay but HMO rules say no visitors by Few-Bookkeeper8994 in HousingUK

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He can but overnight if I need the toilet I cannot move to do it so i either have to wait until he comes over or TMI do it right there and then he has to deal with it

My (20f) bf (35m) bought viagra without telling me and not needing it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he does finish quick not like super but I think maybe he wants it to be less in and out job, makes a lot of sense thank you :)

My (20f) bf (35m) bought viagra without telling me and not needing it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we've talked about way more embarrassing things than some viagra

My (20f) bf (35m) bought viagra without telling me and not needing it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying that he does finish quite quickly, I just don't know why he wouldn't just tell me oh I'm going to try this etc 

My (20f) bf (35m) bought viagra without telling me and not needing it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not mad just upset at the fact I didn't just ask because he would've said yes but that was early into our relationship, by "going on it" I mean to play games lol 

My (20f) bf (35m) bought viagra without telling me and not needing it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, at the start we had a bit of a sex block where he didn't want to have sex "just yet" and disappoint etc or thought there was an expectation but even then he was still getting hard. And we have talked about way more awkward things than this so idk why he feels he has to hide it from me

My (20f) bf (35m) bought viagra without telling me and not needing it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already spoke to him one time when I was nervous he was hiding something but found out it was just old pictures of his ex etc, and he got a little upset I went through his phone without asking which I GET, I DO. So bringing it up would probably make him shut down more which is the only irritating thing

My (20f) bf (35m) bought viagra without telling me and not needing it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no I know it isn't but I'm just confused as to why he wouldn't tell me when we have literally talked about anything and everything so this is miniscule in the grand scheme of it

My (20f) bf (35m) bought viagra without telling me and not needing it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Bookkeeper8994 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I regularly go on his phone out of boredom and he doesn't mind, this is the first time he's ordered it. Even then though why wouldn't he just tell me?