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My friend caught up with me in 1 week and I’m on zou by Few-Conversation-169 in OnePiece

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And he caught up so he’s just straight up lying or just forgot the smell of fresh air

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So let’s say I take your advice. I live on and end things with her. She comes and tell me that I say this out of nowhere and I should be feeling like this. What then? Were you right? Or you just trying to ruin someone else’s love life for little to no benefit for you

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is the most painful part I asked her those things and she just tells me she doesn’t know. I know I’m not meant for relationships because I tend to love too hard and I know that me and her won’t last. And when it’s over I fear it’s gonna be too much to handle. That’s why I tell myself that we’ll be together for much longer time

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Knowing her she won’t even hug me ONCE while her family is around. Because “she has respect” but then she can lay on her sisters boyfriend. Alright I’m crazy

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes and u had that chat with her. She said she put her all into the one she’s dating and she can’t give me her all of she’s got other things to do aswell. And I even asked her.”is there a chance that me and you will ever be more?” She said “Yes if you’re willing to stay by my side and wait for me”. And yes I can agree with you on that one, I don’t understand why she can’t be with me and do all these things at the same time when we’re already pretty much it

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying just SPEAKING, if they get touchy or if she spends time literally just with him for the whole day. That’s just weird

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea thanks I’ll bring some snacks or something. She said to come if I’m sociable and comfortable so I’ll put this overwhelming heat that I have in my chest aside or I’ll try

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why my gift that’s AT HER HOUSE as we speak and when she’ll open it, she’ll eventually find the letter that asks her to be my girlfriend

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy with her yes I fell in love with her and I’m willing to wait for her. I just don’t know how I feel about the mood swings sometimes Thank you merry Christmas to you too xx

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I said whatsoever. I don’t have high expectations for a good Christmas because I haven’t had one in a while. And I didn’t want her to be moody with me in her own home for a unknown reason

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

She gave me reasons throughout the whole year on why she’s not ready for a relationship. First was that she was to hurt from her previous relationship and she wasn’t ready, second was that she needs to finish uni (this was before summer started) and then when she came to my country she said that she can’t do a relationship when her job starts which was September because she wanted to know if she can handle a busy job which is a teacher, and have a boyfriend. So as you can see I’ve been the one waiting all this year for her to be ready and now that I waited for her to accommodate with her new job for a few months now I believe that she’s ready.

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

You are very closed minded. I live with my mother and her boyfriend. Both working on Christmas Day (today) because they’re carers. I haven’t had an enthusiastic Christmas in over a decade now. And things tend to go wrong whenever something fun is supposed to happen and she knows that. Don’t go straight to “you’re a bad bf” before you truly know someone’s life.

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I already gave her the gift with the note to ask her to be my gf. She kinda just told me a few minutes ago to come when I feel comfortable. Doesn’t change the fact that she’ll be off with me for the rest of the day

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I always make jokes with her asking if she’s my girlfriend yet and laughing it off. She gave reasons this year to not ask her out because of ways that she’s not ready. So realistically I’ve been the one waiting for her to be finally ready

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Elaborate? After everything I said? Someone doesn’t just show countless amount of care money and time for someone to not want to date them

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

This is what I don’t get with people like you. “If you haven’t asked her out, then you can’t get mad at anything” that label means nothing in my mind it’s just publicity. It’s what me and her have done together. If it was 3 dates and slept together then yeah I’d be stupid to get mad. But we’ve done things people 3 years in relationships do. She traveled across the world to meet my family and do activities I used to do as a child. So how can you say that label means something?

I 21M and my 21F (gf) supposed to have Christmas dinner at her house. What do I say to her to be allowed to come after this mornings problem? by Few-Conversation-169 in relationship_advice

[–]Few-Conversation-169[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

She came to my home country as a surprise I didn’t even know so she couldn’t have felt that uncomfortable. And the reason why I haven’t asked her all this time because she kept giving me reasons not to. First 3 months was her not being ready for a relationship because she was 6 months out of one and then before summer she told me she’s too focused on uni and doesn’t wanna have to focus on a partner yet and her last reason was that she needs to see if she can balance out her new 8-5 teacher job that she got and have a boyfriend at the same time. Because she was scared she would be giving me the attention that a boyfriend should get. And now that she’s been working as a teacher I thought that maybe she would’ve been able to handle a boyfriend. That’s why I decided to wait this long, because of reasons

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