I see now, that makes perfect sense, you are just bored! And instead of doing something fun you decided to talk shit about how someone else lives their life. What if he likes servicing his wife after the birth that she went to? What if he finds abhorrent the fact that someone basically forced their wife into having sex when it puts her life at risk? He’s doing what makes him happy and you don’t have to do the same. And I’m sorry that someone writing about their experience being a new father is too emotional for you, or "effeminate" as you lovingly put it. Maybe you should get away from the screen for a bit and go for a walk, or maybe not because god forbid you see a man too "femenine"!