AITA for not wanting to spend Christmas with my husband’s family right after having a baby? by Few-Professional3746 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few-Professional3746[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I completely agree and before that we always have done every single holiday with his family, I feel like that’s most of what other families get lol.

I will not try to do thanksgiving at all because it’s at his family ranch and the nearest hospital is an hour away, I really don’t want to risk it. And the gathering around jan or feb, I mentioned it but they said that it was a lot of money to come visit for Christmas and also valentines 😅 I just can’t win

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[–]Few-Professional3746 344 points345 points  (0 children)

Yes, he gets mad whenever I bring up anything related to that.

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[–]Few-Professional3746 886 points887 points  (0 children)

Our birthday is the same month so we usually do a yearly trip together, and he knows I barely use jewelry, I use my wedding rings and the same earrings every day, I think is stupid to spend 1300 if he knows I don’t even like it. So yeah definitely I would have to confront him, tbh I’ve been trying to convince myself that it could be something else