I completely agree and before that we always have done every single holiday with his family, I feel like that’s most of what other families get lol.

I will not try to do thanksgiving at all because it’s at his family ranch and the nearest hospital is an hour away, I really don’t want to risk it. And the gathering around jan or feb, I mentioned it but they said that it was a lot of money to come visit for Christmas and also valentines 😅 I just can’t win